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wheres the love ?
Ok here's my situation iv been in my relationship with my girlfriend for 5 years .we've been living together for just as long .but the past 2 years everything seems to be going down hill and I'm almost at the bottom if not there all ready .you see we haven't had sex in over a year and I do a lot for her but to me she doesn't see it .I bust my ass on 2 jobs provideing for her and I get the cold sholder .I ask her why we don't have sex and she explains it hurts way too bad .but she won't get checked out she says it cost too much money and we don't have insurance .I fell I give and give and she takes .but what's in it for me .NOTHING ! Its like what I do I don't get any apreciation for anything .she works one job and goes to school but she doesn't have tim for my needs .sometimes I just want to pack my things and leave but on the other hand I want too stay .what should I do
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if you love her and she loves you then you can find a way to work things out dont stay if its becuase you guys have so much history. its really tough i can imgagine. if theres a problem with money and insurance did you know the local planed parenthood is right around the corner and she can get checked out there could be something wrong with her and it needs to be checked right away! its not right that she is neglecting you and i dont know if you have tried talking to her about feeling distant and how you feel like that you work hard so that she stays happy and that she sees it and maybe do something for you and explain that if things arnt the way they used to be then theres no way you guys can work out. you shouldnt be unhappy with someone who isnt trying to work things out. and also remember that you dont want to discourage her that she only has one job because of school you want her to do what she wants too.
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I think you should leave. Better to be happy alone than miserable with somebody else. How much more time are you willing to waste on a relationship that clearly isn't in your best interests?
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