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When to kiss him..?
Posted Friday October 22 2010, 5:01 pm
I have be with my boyfriend for almost two monthes. I really want to kiss him. I just don't know when a good time to do it. I don't want him to feel like I don't wanna kiss him cause I do.. So when would be a good time to just lean in and kiss him..?
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Making your first time special.
Posted Friday October 22 2010, 4:58 pm
I am in a relationship. My boyfriend talks about having sex
but, he never pressures me or anything like that. But, how do I tell him that I want my first time to be a little meaningful Ya kmow? I think he would understand but i don't know how to say it to him...? He has only did it once. But, I want my first time to be sort of special. Not at a party or anything like that. How do I tell him?
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My boyfriend hits me but I don't want to leave him or break up
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 10:33 pm
When my boyfriend gets mad he gets really really mad. He hits me and has choked me twice before. I don't think he'd actually kill me but he does leave a lot of bruises and I'm really tired of it. I can't talk to him about it because he's just going to get mad. I don't want to leave him because I love him with all my heart and soul. I'm just tired of having to hide bruises and cover them up with make up and clothing all the time when I go out of the house. We live together right now and I just don't know what to do. My friend has seen the bruises and got worried but I told her it's no big deal. It is a big deal. What do I do from here? how can I make my boyfriend stop hitting me?
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Communication
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 8:07 pm
So this guy and I have been dating for a couple weeks now and it seems like an okay relationship. We don't do anything sexual, which is good since I'm a phobic. We just give light hugs. We talk every so often and stuff.
Well, something about this relationship is starting to bug me (And it's not the fact that my friends scream at me for not making out with him or something silly like that) He always one words me. If I ask how his day went, he'd just say good and you? And if I one word him, he just stares at me, waiting for me to go on. He gets impatient sometimes too and I feel like it's starting to snap. It doesn't help that he's younger than me and his other relationships didn't particularly count. His sister, also my friend, tells ...
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How do you tell a guy you want to be his girlfriend?
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 7:47 pm
I've been going out with this guy for 4 weeks now but we haven't made the step forward to call each other boyfriend and girlfriend. How do I tell him that I want to be his girlfriend and his only one? I know he isn't seeing anyone else right now either but I'm really into him and I am getting the feeling that he's into me, too. I'd like to go on and start the relationship. How do I tell him without coming across as demanding and pushy? We go out 2 or 3 times a week and talk on the phone a lot so I have plenty opportunity, but I just need to find the right words.
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ughh should i talk to him?
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 6:18 pm
19/f there's this cute guy i see whenever i go to school. he smiles at me sometimes when he sees me. i saw him on monday and we saw each other after that like a million times. so i am afraid he thinks im stalking him. he's usually with his friend, but anyways today i walked past him in the library and i was at the bookshelf reading a book. then i was walking towards him and his friend when they were at the copy machine and he was looking at me and kinda smiling at me. and his friend something like do you know her? and he said yeah and i turned around and was like what? and i had this weird look on my face, i was so embarrassed because he and his friend were laughing. he probably thinks im stupid huh? and a total stalker lol i guess? what should i do? should i still talk to him?
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How to tell your boyfriend you're not ready to have sex?
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 4:35 pm
I have been teasing my boyfriend through texts and when we're together about sex. We've been sexting for a few weeks and talking dirty for awhile too. I guess I just thought it was cool to get him all hard and turned on wanting me. I told him we could totally have sex this weekend when we were talking about stuff and I was thinking. My parents are gone for all of saturday and part of sunday and he knows it. The truth is I really don't want to lose my virginity yet. He's all worked up over it and even told me he's bought condoms today for this weekend together. How do I tell him I'm really not ready to start having sex? We're both 17 if it matters.
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My dad and my boyfriend don't get along
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 2:50 pm
My dad hates my boyfriend with a passion. You can see it in his eyes every time my boyfriend comes over to pick me up. It's weird because my dad does this thing where he drills him on stuff. Like he'll ask him for his full name, his parents names, his phone number, his address, etc. etc. It's sooo annoying and stupid. How can I make this stop? My bf is irritated by it and hates coming over to pick me up. It's making things weird. I was going to see if I could spend Thanksgiving with my bfs family but my dad would totally freak out how can I get him to just chill and calm down about my boyfriend and know that my boyfriend is a GOOD guy?
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My girlfriend wants me to have a bigger penis?
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 2:44 pm
My gf and I just started having sex 2 months ago. She's been with 6 guys before me and all that. I can't make her cum and she said it's because my penis is too small. She wants me to make it bigger by taking the pills they sell the stores. I am only 17 and I think you have to be 18 to buy the pills. What can I do for her instead? I feel bad because she's so sure it's because my penis is too small and that's embarrassing. Shes really into having sex and if she can't get off she is really unhappy. Should I just break up with her so she can be with a guy who is bigger? I get hurt feelings because after sex every single time she goes on and on about the problem
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Not sure about my relationship anymore...
Posted Thursday October 21 2010, 2:42 pm
F-18
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. I was only 15 and he was the first person that showed real interest in me. He is the only person i have dated or loved. But now we live together in our own apartment i have been living with him for almost a year now but we have only had our own apartment for about 6 months.
Within the past few months i have begun questionioning the relationship. Only because i have never been with anyone else and am wishing i could have dated around awhile before sticking with someone. I have never kissed or done anything with anyone else and all i can think about is what it would be like. I really want to try and date around for awhile before i become considered an adult and finish college....
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my partner and me
Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 11:28 pm
my partner and me are not sleeping together were both 17yrs old.
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second question to question #1.. "should i date this person"
Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 9:05 pm
Im a 22 year old female..
my question has to do with the question i asked before.. im sorry but im just confused and i dont know who else to ask for advice. so im getting to know a 22 yr. old male who recently got out of a long term relationship due to his ex cheated on him.& he has 3 kids with her. so i took the advice of getting to know him not minding he has kids, cause i started to have feelings for him. he just today told me he had to tell me something that he couldnt text me or call me anymore. because something happen and he had to be there for his family. but that he didnt want me to take it as if he is a bad person. he said he enjoyed the time we spent together and that hopefully we can see each other soon so he can expl...
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He isn't my type physically. Good personality, though?
Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 4:54 pm
So I reeeeally like this guy (he's seventeen; junior and I'm fifteen; sophomore). We are at that stage where we both know we like eachother but we haven't kissed yet. I have this really wierd problem though... I imagine kissing him and I find myself just not thaaat attracted to him. I keep imagining kissing him and then images of me and my ex pop up and I can't get them to go away (my ex is a dick and there are no feelings left for him). This new guy and I were cuddling last weekend and at that certain moment I wasss wanting to hook up but it feels like I only feel that way 40% of the time... I don't I guess he's just not my "type" physically. He's an amaaaazing guy personality wise and I really like him but I don't know what to do about this!
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Doing Too Much? I am 14, he is 19.
Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 4:53 pm
Okay, So me and Gio? of course i havent been listening to anyones advice.
Hes 19 I'm 14. I was ignoring him at the party, he went to his ex. I found out nothing happened that night with them and I was relieved.
We didnt talk for like a week or two.
Outta no where last night my phone rang and it was Gio. He wanted to see me. So i went to kick it with him. We drank a little with some people at his friends house.
Then all his friends left except one but he was passed out. So me and Gio just sat there talking for hours.
And heres EXACTLY what he told me.
"Okay, i really like you a lott, The first time we ever kicked it, it was just like a little crush, then we stopped talking and i ...
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My best friend is flirting with my crush!
Posted Wednesday October 20 2010, 3:08 pm
I told my best friend I like this guy and that he likes me and the next day she starts flirting with him. She asked him who he liked and he said her and me. She keeps flirting with him right in front of my face.. She doesn't like him but she just keeps leading him on! What should I do?
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i need to know how to lose weight.
Posted Tuesday October 19 2010, 7:24 pm
i need to lose weight so i can feel better about myself.
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Am I a Slut??
Posted Tuesday October 19 2010, 2:56 pm
okay. so im a 14 yr old female and im a freshman in high school. Well, i was at this party one of my friends had and i got high and hooked up w 2 guys and had oral. then, everyone called me a slut at my school. but soon i really didnt start to care. all of the girls were jealous i think. then when i walk down the hall if theres a guy they either slap my a$$ or squeeze my boob. so after that i went and me and this other girl (that i hate) we started to masturbate together in her bedroom. we did oral and we made out. she licked my boobs and said i was a wh0re and a slut. she then started to slap my a$$ and we both got really horny. so she called up a couple of guy friends that recorded me and her like "doing it" then the other guy s...
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Is this normal? What to do.
Posted Tuesday October 19 2010, 2:13 pm
17/f
I'm happy with him. I am. But there are times where I just cry. He confuses me. Before he was so sure about his feelings for me, now I'm confused on what he's thinking. He says, he "hopes" he can stay with me. And he's "trying" to keep his feelings for me. Before he was trying to break up with me because apparently I was "getting in the way of his dreams". He did not exactly say those words, but he did also say he wanted more "freedom". At the end he was having a hard time letting me go, so he decided to stay with me and try to cope with everything. His dream was to be a surgeon. So, I tried supporting him. We studied together, we increased our study time, we didn't see each other ...
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i don't know
Posted Tuesday October 19 2010, 1:43 pm
how can i get any guy that i want ? i really like this boy in my class but he have a girlfriend and this crush is driving me crazy i don't really know he's so hot and really cute ! what to do ?
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Is it going to work?
Posted Tuesday October 19 2010, 12:02 pm
I will try and keep this as short as possible. I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months about 3 months ago now. I do regret it now, we remained friends but things were awkward (understandbly). I was going through a lot at the time and I didn't want to bring my ex down with me, I was constantly stressed and I could see how much it was affecting him. We constantly argued and it didn't feel like a REAL relationship to me so I did what I thought was best.
Ok so i'm in a better place now. I KNOW that I can't click my fingers and get him back, I wouldn't expect that - and I never asked him to wait around for me to be in a better place. We don't speak that often, maybe 3 times a week. I told my ex I wanted to give the relationship a...
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