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Making your first time special.
I am in a relationship. My boyfriend talks about having sex
but, he never pressures me or anything like that. But, how do I tell him that I want my first time to be a little meaningful Ya kmow? I think he would understand but i don't know how to say it to him...? He has only did it once. But, I want my first time to be sort of special. Not at a party or anything like that. How do I tell him?
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Hey there,
Yea, I know what you mean. Tell your guy that you would love to have that moment with him, but you would love it even more if he took his time on you and built up your pleasure. Girls do take a bit longer to get aroused than guys, so if you let him know you would love more foreplay beforehand, I am sure he will be happy to oblige.
If he says he prefers sex rough, then let him know that if he makes you happy, he will be more satisfied in the moment. It is all about communication; sometimes guys don't have that... If you want to have an awesome first time: have him give you lots of foreplay, let him know what you love the most (cuddling, kissing, touching), and be honest with him. Tell him when you love what he is doing and don't hold back if you don't. If a guy really loves you, he will likely want to make the moment last as long as possible. Tell him since he is your first, you would love for him to make you feel truly loved, not just sexed. He should get the hint <3
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