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Doing Too Much? I am 14, he is 19.
Okay, So me and Gio? of course i havent been listening to anyones advice.
Hes 19 I'm 14. I was ignoring him at the party, he went to his ex. I found out nothing happened that night with them and I was relieved.
We didnt talk for like a week or two.
Outta no where last night my phone rang and it was Gio. He wanted to see me. So i went to kick it with him. We drank a little with some people at his friends house.
Then all his friends left except one but he was passed out. So me and Gio just sat there talking for hours.
And heres EXACTLY what he told me.
"Okay, i really like you a lott, The first time we ever kicked it, it was just like a little crush, then we stopped talking and i said whatevers, Now that we've been kicking it a lot lately, i like you hellla, and i do wanna be with you, i want you to be my hyna, but fuck, your 14. I know i could get in trouble for that shit. I dont wanna risk getting in trouble. If it was legal, I'd let the whole fucking world know that you're my hyna. But your 14. Whatever we got going on, well i dont want it to end because pues i really like you."
Then i said,
"So you can fuck me but you can't DATE me?"
He said,
"Neta, when i got a girl i let the world know, and i dont keep that shit on lock, and what we do nobody has to know. your just damnnn, too young."
i just stayed quiet, and he kept looking at me asking if i was okay, and i just said yeah.
But my question is, Should i just let him go because i know we're not getting anywhere because I'm 14?
Or should i just stick around and see if maybe we do stand a chance. How is he REALLY gonna get in trouble if its okay with my parents?
I just have no idea what to do!
Help?
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Please do not be one of these silly little girls on this site that posts for "advice" and hopes that everyone will agree with them. You KNOW you are doing something wrong. And I highly doubt your parents would be okay with you being 14 years old going out to parties and drinking and having sex with a guy 5 years older than you! If he is having sex with you but not dating you because he doesn't want anyone to know, then LISTEN to that statement. He is HAVING SEX WITH YOU but WONT DATE YOU.
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You have literally asked 4 to 5 questions about you and this Gio boy, and your right, your not taking anyones advice. So if your looking for someone to tell you that YES go ahead and be with this 19 year old boy thats a GREAT idea!
Well, to freaking bad, its a horrible idea. Hes 19 and could go to jail.
You 14 and having sex. Thats just wrong. What ever happened to playing with barbies?
You need to just leave this boy behind you. But obviously your not going to listen to this advice either, so you should probably just stop posting these questions.
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I couldn't do better than to echo Raz's advice. Its good adice. Listen.
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Yes, he could get into serious trouble, even if it was okay with your parents. The law doesn't care if your parents think it's a good idea or not.
Check the age of consent in your state, but in most states 19 and 14 counts as statutory rape. As much as you might care for this numbnut, you owe him better then to help him get himself labelled a sex offender for the rest of his life.
Stop taking his calls. Stop hanging out with him. That’s the nicest thing you can do for him. So do him a favour and stay away.
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