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Posted Wednesday November 3 2010, 4:08 pm
I like this guy... but I can't help comparing everything about him to my ex. And I mean EVERYTHING. I don't know how to stop. It's making me think about my ex constantly when I don't want to. My ex is a douche who betrayed me and hurt me over five months ago... Yet I can't stop thinking about him recently... he's moved on, he moved on quickly. But I still miss him.. But I dooo like this new boy, a lot. He's not as attractive as my ex in my opinion though I've heard people disagree with that. I just don't feel the same spark with this new guy physically... And I know what most of you are going to say. "You need to forget about you're ex because he hurt you, and its in the past. You need to focus on this new guy because he's nice and won...
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Unfaithful Husband?
Posted Wednesday November 3 2010, 3:19 pm
Hello, for starters, i love my husband very much but he has hurt me badly. I have caught him in the past 7 yrs. being overly flirtatious, sending secret texts, receiveing suspicious text(im getting in the bubble bath now tee hee). hiding one girls number in his phone, hiding video cameras around our house(for sexual reasons), trying to force me to "go out" with girls, lately he sent an email to a girl that was innapropriate, i asked him not to speak to her anymore. For 3 months..nothing. Then i found out he set up a secret email account to speak to her. He calls her cutie and tells her he will "punish" her. They play poker on monday nites. I LOST IT!! I have had enough!! He cried and told me he is sorry. I told him he is...
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Does he still care about me?
Posted Wednesday November 3 2010, 1:03 am
I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, and he used to do all of these things, but now he has pretty much stopped:
no more "I wish we could live together" or "I never get tired of you"
no more talk of the future
no more I want to spend all of my time with you
no more "Can I come over?"
no more texting me sweet texts
no more saying you make me happy
no compliments at all except physical ones. unless i ask for one.
In addition, he sometimes rejects me (sexually). But he still claims he loves me. He still wants to hang out on weekends, but not during the week anymore. Sometimes I feel like he still cares, but other times but gut just feels wrong. I've br...
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Bad situation: He wants to have sex the first night because his ex did that.
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 10:58 pm
Please help! So there is this guy I met off a site and he was really nice in person. But , he wanted me to go over to his place the first time we met and I wanted to in public so we did. So then ,after that we talked and stuff. And he started talking about his ex gf died and he wanted to marry her and he kept repeating it and said they had sex the first night and everything. So , he was wondering if I would be just as fast, but I told him no right? So like he said he does not want to wait forever... he says it makes no sense and everything. He kept asking to hang out , but I kept making up excuses...because he seems like he wants sex , but he keeps asking me to come over to his place and cuddle? I mean im the girl shouldn't he be coming to ...
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I'm VERY confused about guys!
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 10:27 pm
I am very confused about guys (hence the title) and I found myself asking me a few questions. See, I like my best friend, whom I'm not sure likes me back. I've like him for 2 years. But a few select times, I find myself thinking about another guy as well. And I find out that I have a small crush on another guy, as well as really liking my best friend. Am I some kind of whore? Is it because my best friend might not like me? Is it because I want a boyfriend? I'm so confused!!
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I want to feel special.
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 9:33 pm
So, I have this boyfriend, we've been friends since I was in eighth grade. Well in my sophomore year of high school we started dating after we both had gone through break ups with out first serious relationships. Well, I'm a junior now, and him a senior, at first, I felt so connected and happy, and he really let me in and made me feel so special. But after a while, it kinda went away. He doesn't treat me as special and puts me last. He tells me he has a completely different idea of life then him, he doesn't want to let me in closer because apparently he's just gonna break it off anyway, maybe he should've told me that before. Apparently it's because his ex, made him not want to let anyone in. Well, I feel neglected, and not special, and jus...
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Gay to Straight
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 8:38 pm
15f
I have a HUGE crush on this guy but he's gay is it possible to turn a gay guy staight and if so how?
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I like a younger guy..
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 6:37 pm
I am a female senior in highschool and I currently like a guy who is a freshman. He's three years younger than me. Is that wrong? What should I do? I'm afraid to tell anybody because I think I'll get teased, but on the other hand I really like the guy and hes way mature for his age :) Help! Im so confused.
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how do i ask him?
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 4:31 pm
Okay so I've had a crush on this boy brian pretty much since the day I met him.. which was about a year and a half ago..we've been hooking up for the past year on and off..sometimes drunk sometimes sober.. I really want to ask him how he feels toward me because I honestly don't believe its solely physical..how do I go about asking? I need it to be casual, I'm so nervous! Thanks
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bf friends w ex wife
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 3:56 pm
sees her to help fix her house
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Going with two boy friends at the same time
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 1:32 pm
what do i do im goin with a boy nd ive jst meet a new boy nd im kind of a goin with him nd a dnt want to dump any of them cozz there really nice nd i got a message from my first boyfriend saying i love u shannon yer gorjiss :s
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i'm not too sure what he wants
Posted Tuesday November 2 2010, 12:53 am
so this guy has had a thing for me since last year, and it was obvious. he would always flirt with me everyday. recently he talked to my guy friend about me. then we talked everyday from morning to night time, all of a sudden it stops. out of nowhere, and he didn't answer my text. he is driving me insane
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sooo there's this guy I REALLY like....
Posted Monday November 1 2010, 11:00 pm
19/f College Student
There's this guy I REALLY like. He goes to my school. He looks at me A LOT. Like, he's always starring. But, whenever we actually get to talk, he get's nervous, chokes up, and is REALLY shy. I don't know how to break the ice and get this moving along. I'm not trying to push things, but I know that he has a great personality. I just wish he would show it around me more. Any advise you can give me for the next time I see him?
Thanks
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Can't Get Over Him...
Posted Monday November 1 2010, 4:23 am
I did a horrible thing, when I was 19 or 20; I let my ex-husband talk me into sleeping with another man, to spice up our love life. It was one-sided - he just wanted the "power" of "sharing" me. I was just a young and confused kid.
That was 17 years ago. I know now that my ex abused me sexually and mentally all that time. We divorced 5 years ago. I finally got away from him...
The problem is with the man I let him talk be into being with. I began an affair with him; it lasted more than ten years. He was married; I was married. We fell in love. But he was twenty years older than me, and I had young children.
The affair ended soon after the marraige. He ended up telling ...
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Boys, Whores, and Heart Fails
Posted Monday November 1 2010, 2:43 am
16/f
Alright, first off I have to say I feel stupid for doing this, but strangers do give the best advice because they aren't really biased.
Alright, so I told my best guy friend that I liked him (Which was really awkward because the day before he told me he wanted to go out with my best friend). He didn't exactly reject me, but he didn't exactly accept that either.
So fast forward a couple of weeks and he mentions to me he started talking to my cousin quite a bit. Three days later he's dating my cousin. Not to be rude (and it's not because she's dating him) she's kinda a whore and doesn't seem like the type he'd be into at all.
So after this happened I decided to get over it. It's...
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I don't know if I should date this guy! Mixed information?
Posted Monday November 1 2010, 1:41 am
I'm in high school and there's this guy who I've been thinking of seriously going out with and stuff, and he's only ever been incredibly nice and sweet to me. He's been a total gentleman and has treated me really well(: However, every person has told me he's a 'total manwhore' and that I shouldn't go out with him or anything. Now, I did mention this to him and he said that everyone says that because he's really friendly and has a lot of friends - which is true, and that doesn't bother me.
I just don't know if I should really go through with this because what if everyone else is right and he just totally plays me? But he's only ever been absolutely amazing with me, so I've never experienced anything else with him! Can I just have some...
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My girlfriend thinks I am still a virgin, what do I do?
Posted Sunday October 31 2010, 8:19 pm
Ok, i had sex a very long time ago. my girl friend of 10 months still thinks im a virgin. what should i do.
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How do I know if he even wants to date me!!
Posted Sunday October 31 2010, 5:33 pm
hello im cheyenne (a girl) and im 13 and in the 7th grade. I like this boy devin, he's in my class. We've flirted and I know he knows i like him and i'm pretty sure he likes me too.I need to know if I should ask him out or if I should wait for him to. Another thing is we are pretty much two different people, he's into dirtbikes but i'm a lot more skater emo...you know like im not at all girly no skirts or tank tops. and that might be the kind of girl he ikes girly!!. ohh and im taller than him and never have had a boyfriend or even kissed a guy and he has a ton of times!!! well he has given me a stuffed tiger befor (which i kinda sleep with EVERY NIGHT!) I just need to know my next few steps into actually having a relationship with this guy...
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Relationship right before college
Posted Sunday October 31 2010, 2:00 pm
Is it a good idea to pursue a high school relationship during senior year? I can't predict the future of this relationship, whether or not it will last, but in all likelihood we will be separated by college. I'm going on to college and the girl is still going to be in high school. Is it worth it?
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Posted Sunday October 31 2010, 3:55 am
Ok so I have a boyfriend and we have been together for almost seven months. I love him but I am starting to like someone else too. I am not completely sure if he likes me and I'm also not completely sure if he is flirting with me. But I think he does and is flirting with me. I just love being with him because this guy brings excitement in my everyday life and he makes everything feel new. But I also love being with my boyfriend because he makes me sooo happy. But what I am trying to say is should I stay with my boyfriend or should I leave him and take a chance?
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