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I'm VERY confused about guys!
I am very confused about guys (hence the title) and I found myself asking me a few questions. See, I like my best friend, whom I'm not sure likes me back. I've like him for 2 years. But a few select times, I find myself thinking about another guy as well. And I find out that I have a small crush on another guy, as well as really liking my best friend. Am I some kind of whore? Is it because my best friend might not like me? Is it because I want a boyfriend? I'm so confused!!
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You are not a whore! It is perfectally normal to like two guys at once. As long as you don't date both of them at the same time, it will cause no harm.
Maybe you should think about which one you have more feelings for and see how he feels about you.
Good Luck :)
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Hello.
A "WHORE"?!? What? noooooo.
Liking two people at once does not make you anywhere near a whore. This is definitely normal. There are so many nice, attractive young men in the world, so liking two at the same time is bound to happen eventually. Besides, like you said, it isn't as though you're obsessed with both. Crushes are fun distractions and they happen all the time. Your crush on the other boy might not have anything to do with your crush on your best friend. Whatever you do, don't feel guilty or wrong about liking the other guy.
But since you like your best friend much more, you should try to figure out if he does like you. Have you tried figuring out body language or maybe if your friend seems to pay extra attention to you? Since you guys are super close anyways, you could ask him to go to a movie or something and see how he acts when you two are alone. I'm not saying you need to tell him it's a date. Keep it casual and you can try to notice if he feels the same way. If you find out that he doesn't seem to like you that way, then at least you'll be free to know that you tried. Luckily, there's no need to "mess up your friendship" by proclaiming your crush.
Take care & good luck!
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It is perfectly possible to like more than one person at one time. That does not make you a whore (or anything even remotely close to that concept).
Another thing, remember we are not judged on our thoughts, we are judged on our actions.
Now, its possible you want a boyfriend, but thats not neccessarily the reason you like two guys. Certainly thought, if one carries a crush around for very long without anything happening it is natural to start looking around.
I wouldn't worry about it, but it might be an idea to start figuring out what you want to do in relation to your best friend.
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