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My girlfriend thinks I am still a virgin, what do I do?
Ok, i had sex a very long time ago. my girl friend of 10 months still thinks im a virgin. what should i do.
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Tell her the truth.
I think you know the answer to this, but you were hoping for someone to tell you its okay that she doesnt know. Its not okay. You need to tell her!
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You should tell your girlfriend that you aren't a virgin a relationship built on lies don't do you any good so just tell her and if she truly loves she'll understand.
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Do not go into details when you tell her, as this might be a total turn_off for her, or even make her feel insecure. Be smart...
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Hi,
Very simple, logical solution to this: Tell Her The Truth!
If you really love her and have been with her for this long... then she should be able to trust you and know you are there for her and her alone. If you do not tell her, she is bound to find out sooner or later and then you will be in a bigger situation. Telling her now will let her know you care for her, that you want to be honest with her, and that she can trust you. If she finds out this info from a source that isn't you... she will know that you kept this from her, be very disappointed, and will have trust issues with you for quite some time.
Take her to a place where it is just the two of you and let her know the truth. She probably will be mad that you didn't tell her this to begin with, so let her know that you are also sorry and you hope this won't affect your relationship. This is a big thing to keep from a girl. Honesty will get you far in a relationship, as long as you use it <3
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Bottom line, you need to tell her as soon as possible! The longer you wait the worse you will feel and she is bound to find out sometime. If you really care about her and you want things to last you have to be honest. Just break it to her nicely, don't try to butter her up though. Let her know that you have something very important to tell her and that you realize you were wrong not to tell her in the first place and apologize. Make a commitment not to hide anything from her ever again and answer any questions that she has about what happened. Tell her that she has a right to be mad and you understand if she needs some time away from you. She'll be hurt, so try and tell her what you love about her and that you really weren't trying to hurt her. Good luck!
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