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A ditch for Mitch?
Posted Sunday January 2 2011, 2:39 pm
so theres this guy ive been talking to him for about 2 weeks now. and we chilled like everyday till either tuesday or wednesday. I didnt chill with him, and ever since that day it takes him foreverr to answer my texts, and he doesnt text me. He says i never ask him to chill anymore, but i asked him to chill yesturday and today. Today again took him forever to answer my texts, and than he said he was doing something so he'll hit me up later. In reality hes probably at his friend Mitch's house who lives on the road infront of my house. And he is with mitch almost everyday, usually with him before he's with me for an hour. And me and they guy had a thing going on. And i looked on his facebook and theres this girl who keeps saying these things ...
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what should i do?
Posted Sunday January 2 2011, 1:22 pm
I realized I like my best friend. But I'm not sure he knows and how he really feels about me. What should I do?
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What does a boner mean?
Posted Sunday January 2 2011, 6:46 am
what does it meen when you get a boner if your a boy?
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Getting over him, what's going to happen.
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 11:24 pm
My boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago, and... Let's just say that I give up. I don't know what to do anymore. I was positive it was going to work out, but he's just not trying. He told me he just didn't want to anymore, he just doesn't want a relationship anymore.
So I was thinking about giving him time since he wants to be a surgeon and everything. He will be working two jobs and going to school as a full time student, I know he won't have time for me. He wants me to move on, he asked me why I like him and everything.
He says that I'm always going to be that one special person, like the first person he kissed, the first person he lost his virginity, things like that. He also says that he's always going to lo...
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Should I tell her that her boyfriend is trying to get with me?
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 9:35 pm
Okay, so I'm only 13 and in 8th grade, and well this guy.... well he has a gf and he is a freshman and he sends messages while he is dating this girl.... and IK cuz he did it with me and lied and said he broke up with her and I believed him! But anyways he let me get on his facebook and thought he was smart and deleted the inbox, but he didn't delete the sent mail..... and I looked at it and I thought I was special but I saw he had messaged all these girls while he was messaging me.... And he is STILL doing it and he DOES have a gf.... and I want to know if I should tell her, cuz IK I would want to know but I don't want to do it out of revenge or anything or hurt their relationship..... but I even copied the message he was sending a girl......
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My mom doesn't like him. :(
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 6:18 pm
Soo I'm back from some R&R anyway.
I'm going out with a guy who's younger than I am by one year (I'm a sophmore& he's a freshman) recently I told my mom this cause I really like kwami, and she deserved to know. She knows what he looks like and started making funny of me for dating someone so dark he was "purple"; no she's not racist but I love my mom. And I'd really like it for them to get along. What should I do to make it work ??
Oh..and kwami (his name) wants it too wirk too.
Thanks!! (i'm 15/f he's 14/m)
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abussive on and off relationship
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 5:42 pm
i'm in a long distance relationship i'm 21 he's 23, he changes his miind alot and i dont know what to do , i know best would be to not be with him, but i wanna be with him i think something is wrong with me , cause he is not nice all the time, actually he is very mean sometimes calls me horrrible names insulting me but then next day he is like saying he is gonna move to my city and started looking for appartments and all so i dont understand if he acts that way cause maybe wants me to end the relationship or he just doesnt care or knows what he wants, he says he wants to be with me however he always imply that he knows im cheating (which ive never done) and actually one time we broke up for like 2 days he hooked up with a girl next than 24 ...
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Feeling guilty after having threesome with a girlfriend and her friend
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 2:01 pm
I guilted my girlfriend into a threesome. She told me some months back that she was "slightly" bi-curious. I thought it sounded kind of hott to have a threesome so I really did pressure her to do it with me and this girl she knows (who is openly bisexual). We had the threesome last week, and I did penetrate both my girlfriend and the other girl, but now I feel really bad and guilty. When it was happening, I felt really good though, but now I kind of even feel like I cheated on my girlfriend. My girlfriend doesn't act like anything differently has happened, but inside I feel bad that I pushed her into doing it. I asked her how she felt now that it's happened and she said she feels weird and wants to put it behind her. What can I do...
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getting over boys
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 11:20 am
I was dumped by a boy and he said the only reason he did it was because he felt bad going with his best friend sister but now he goes with somebody else and I think he lied about it. We don't get along as friends and I can't stand not talking to him and only time we get along is when going out. He's like my heart but at the same time he's acting like a douche bag to me. When I'm with my brother only thing he does if he's with us is talk about his new girlfriend. So help me. How do you get over boys when they live near you ride your bus and is at your house 24/7??
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Getting rid of a horrible ex
Posted Saturday January 1 2011, 6:57 am
So my last relationship was crazy and I really liked this girl. She seemed to be completely truthful and honest. Her friends were not the best though and towards the end of my relationship it turned out that her friends led her to cheating on me with 3 different guys within one month. One of the guy's sisters was the one who finally told me the truth. So me and her had our long time dispute and I finally told her I regretted it all. I know you can say that it wasn't her fault, that her friends made her or talked her into it, but I'm pretty sure they didn't put a weapon up to her and forced her. She has a mind of her own and can decide herself. I thought she was different. Well after I told her I did not want to be friends anymore and that I...
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How to Tell if Your Lesbian Friend Has a Crush on You
Posted Friday December 31 2010, 9:08 pm
My best friend is a lesbian and has been for awhile now. I think she came out to me like 2 years ago now. Anyway, lately she's been hanging all over me, begging me to spend more time with her, and everything. Sometimes I feel like she's flirting with me because she's all about cuddling on me and really touchy. I know like a two months ago her gf broke up with her so I guess she could just be lonely and clingy but she wasn't this way with me before. How can you tell if your lesbian friend has developed a crush on you? I don't want to be rude either way, but if she does like me then I want her to know I'm not interested in her that way. I just don't want to embarrass myself in the process if she doesn't like me :P
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Scared out of my mind: He is a sex offender!
Posted Friday December 31 2010, 5:57 pm
(female) hey anyone please answer i keep here as soon as this happened i may be over reacting but omg ok so, i got on this website were you can chat with people because i was bored and I said hey and then a warning popped up and it said Warning: we have to warn you from federal law that this person is a registered sex offender! and then he said heyy and i freaked and exit out! I am really scared I hope i am just over reacting and everything is fine but im just scared they can get my information and were i live in stuff please help do u think he could -ThANks
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just friends. pros & cons of hooking up?
Posted Friday December 31 2010, 1:24 pm
i [19f] definitely, absolutely, certainly only like him [20m] as a friend. and i am as close to certain as i can possibly be about him also only liking me as a friend. i'm not into friends-with-benefits relationships. he's tried to hook up with me before and i said no, but sometimes when we cuddle he'll hug me just right and i'll want it so badly.. we hooked up once before leaving for winter break, and we've talked every day since leaving. i do not want to be more than friends but sometimes i really, really want to hook up with him.. thoughts? what should i do?
i realize that the constant texting and skyping is bad, so my new rule has been that i can't initiate the conversation. the texting has slowed significantly but the sk...
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I'm a lesbian but I am interested in a guy and want to date? Am I straight?
Posted Friday December 31 2010, 1:10 pm
I've been out as a lesbian for the past 12+ years. I'm 33 and I've dated my share of women. I've had serious relationships and not so serious relationships. I've never dated a man, not even for a short period of time as a teenager, and have never even had a desire to have sex with a man.
I haven't had a relationship since I broke up with my ex-girlfriend in the spring. Not even a one night stand with a woman. I've been happy since then though. Until this guy, this MAN, came along.
I started a new job after the break up and it's something that requires two people to work together often. I work with this guy, Steven, and we've been working together for a few months now. At first, when I very first met him, I thou...
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whys he writing that
Posted Friday December 31 2010, 5:42 am
My ex boyfriend put on his facebook last night 'praying that you miss me'
That's obviously about me (who else would be missing him) I know he's not seeing/dating anyone else because I'm good friends with his friends and they told me he's not (I didn't ask them)
Btw he broke up with me 3 months ago. For the first 2 months I contacted him but the past month I haven't.
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No foreplay before sex
Posted Friday December 31 2010, 12:42 am
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So it's really weird but I would rather just have sex then do foreplay. I feel more comfortable having sex then giving a guy a handjob or blowjob. I've actually never given either because I'm scared I'll be bad but I've had sex before. It's actually pretty weird. I'll let a guy finger me and I don't care but I just can't find myself to let me return the favor to them and would rather just get right into sex. Like from making out to sex. Is this weird? I've only had sex twice with the same person ..but I'm no longer talking to him. Would any guy let this happen or would they be turned off that I wouldn't want to please them before sex?
I don't know what to do!
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How am I suppose to react?
Posted Thursday December 30 2010, 11:59 pm
I have been communicating with my boyfriend for a year before we got together and we just made it official on Christmas day. Now even though I feel like nothing has changed, I don't feel like he is really committed to "us" like I am. He is the same age but is like a big kid. And the only time he is mature about anything is in the bedroom. Sometimes I feel as though I'm rushing things or maybe he doesn't take the relationship seriously. I thought maybe I should just ignore him for a couple of days or act non-chalant on certain things to get his attention. Should I give it a try?
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got me one christmas gift...
Posted Thursday December 30 2010, 11:07 pm
I'm 28 to 29. Should i be upset with my girlfriend for buying me one gift instead of a few gifts?
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Another Guy
Posted Thursday December 30 2010, 11:42 am
18f. My boyfriend and I decided after four months, mutually that we should be friends. Hes the same age. Things had been going good, but then things would feel off and we would not see eachother for a while and then be happy when we were together again. I felt we needed more interesting things to do when we were together and he just seemed content. One day he seemed real frustrated at me and so I had brought up the idea of being friends for awhile, he said he agreed. His one guy friend said to me that he probably didn't want to break up and that he just agreed, which makes me wonder if he still has feelings. I don't have any close friends/family to talk to or hang out with and so all I can think about is him. I feel as if I lost the only pe...
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how do you get a guy to like me more?
Posted Thursday December 30 2010, 4:32 am
Other than being myself, are there any other tricks to get a guy to regain feelings or like me more? This is someone who I recently dated.
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