|
Should I tell her that her boyfriend is trying to get with me?
Okay, so I'm only 13 and in 8th grade, and well this guy.... well he has a gf and he is a freshman and he sends messages while he is dating this girl.... and IK cuz he did it with me and lied and said he broke up with her and I believed him! But anyways he let me get on his facebook and thought he was smart and deleted the inbox, but he didn't delete the sent mail..... and I looked at it and I thought I was special but I saw he had messaged all these girls while he was messaging me.... And he is STILL doing it and he DOES have a gf.... and I want to know if I should tell her, cuz IK I would want to know but I don't want to do it out of revenge or anything or hurt their relationship..... but I even copied the message he was sending a girl.... Gerry December 24, 2010 at 12:40am
i would kiss you on the bus
Gerry _ _ _ _ _ December 24, 2010 at 12:42am
well night sexy if you want i would kiss you on the bus if you didnt tell anyone and if you came up and sat by me. night sexy get on tomorrow.
and said that to another girl, but like I asked above this should I tell his gf? I don't think she will believe me.... but I hope she will. :/ Oh and he tries to get girls to send him pics he begs and begs...... and trust me he has gotten some.....
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Dear wise one ,
im 13 too id sudgest get him back play the game with him ..Ok im a master mind for this stuff this same thing kinda happned to me. all you have to do is if you have a phone tell him to call you then at school act like if you do even like him and act like if he not the only one on your list .
And i think if you plan on doing this you syhould proble tell his girl first because i dont think she would be really happy if he kept on with his little games be hind her back and i think it would be nice that you also told her cause if that was me id thank you for letting me know .
hugs & rockets
moniitah
xoxo
]
Okay, I'm a teenager too, so I can relate(: You have to tell her. You said yourself that you would want to know if a guy was cheating on you. Tell her! It will only hurt her in the long run if you dont tell her now. If you have any questions, just message me (:
]
Yes you HAVE to tell her, don't worry about hurting there relationship. And if she doesn't believe you then that's her own fault atleast you did what was right because he's just playing with her.
]
WOW. Yes you should tell her she needs to know the truth about him. She shouldn't be with that type of guy. He sounds like a player and a flirt and a cheater. It doesn't matter if it hurts their relationship it would be for the better for her not to be with him anymore. So just tell her and make sure your there for her because she will be really mad when she finds out. :/ It could hurt really badly. I know how it feels because I found out on my boyfriend's Facebook and it broke my heart terribly. :( Good luck and tell me how it goes.
]
You should definitely tell the girl... in a polite and genuine way, as nice as u can. Tell her the way that you would like to be told in this position, which might be a bit difficult. I truly believe you NEED to tell her, and even show her proof. I dont think that you should do it over the computer or texting or over the phone because telling her face to face will make her see that you are serious and you could even show her the proof. He sounds like a pig and believe me you're not messing up the relationship he did that enough! If she does not believe you then thats her problem because you did what you needed to you, its her choice if she wants to not believe you.
I have been in a situation kinda like this but a bit worse.
I slept with this dude who told me that he had broken up with his girlfriend and i believed it!
I wanted him alot and he was so so so sweet to me. Well turns out after i slept with him, i found out that they were still dating, and i felt horrible! I told her, because well i dont keep secrets like that and especially when its a horrible issue like that and i would wanna know too! Well, I told her and she didnt believe me! They were dating for a year or so and they continued to date a year or more after this happened. After I told the girl what happened, I talked to one of her close friends and she told me that she has been told by a few girls that he has cheated on her, but she thought all were lying. Even her 'friend' told her that he fingered her! I know, and she still didnt believe her.
What is important here is that you can do all that you can do, and that by telling her what is happening.
It is on her what she believes.
xoxo.
(hope this helps :D )
]
More Questions: |