so theres this guy ive been talking to him for about 2 weeks now. and we chilled like everyday till either tuesday or wednesday. I didnt chill with him, and ever since that day it takes him foreverr to answer my texts, and he doesnt text me. He says i never ask him to chill anymore, but i asked him to chill yesturday and today. Today again took him forever to answer my texts, and than he said he was doing something so he'll hit me up later. In reality hes probably at his friend Mitch's house who lives on the road infront of my house. And he is with mitch almost everyday, usually with him before he's with me for an hour. And me and they guy had a thing going on. And i looked on his facebook and theres this girl who keeps saying these things like theyre dating, and he says em back and it says his relationship status is engaged to her. (im 15 and hes 16 so theyre not engaged). but than i asked my bestfriend conor if he ever fooled around with his ex gf (NOT the same girl that i was just talking about on facebook) and he said that they kiss all the time in the hallway, and his ex gf has a boyfriend. And in the beginning of us chilling he wanted sex. But i had my period so i couldnt, and wouldnt and dont really want to with him. I would but i dont trust him at all. and i want to understand him. And he is a little bit of a guy who thinks he is such hot shit. Can you just tell me what u guys think of the whole situation, and if u think im being played or anything? I know this is a lot of stuff and not a specific answer, but say what you think pleasee.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? miranda_love answered Sunday January 2 2011, 4:05 pm: I don't think you and him should see each other so often because then he will play you. You should only see this guy like twice a week so he can take you more seriously. He might just be taking advantage of you since he made a problem about you guys not chilling. You guys aren't really going out right? So it wouldnt make sense to see each other so often. Unless he wants sex from you or he really likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you or something. This guy probably has a big ego. Don't make it any bigger than it already is. He more than likely seems like a jerk and it's called fooling around with other people when they have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. You don't want that. It's nothing serious you have with this guy. So I suggest backing off and only seeing him not so often. Once or twice a week is good enough for him. Hope this helped. :) [ miranda_love's advice column | Ask miranda_love A Question ]
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