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How to Tell if Your Lesbian Friend Has a Crush on You
My best friend is a lesbian and has been for awhile now. I think she came out to me like 2 years ago now. Anyway, lately she's been hanging all over me, begging me to spend more time with her, and everything. Sometimes I feel like she's flirting with me because she's all about cuddling on me and really touchy. I know like a two months ago her gf broke up with her so I guess she could just be lonely and clingy but she wasn't this way with me before. How can you tell if your lesbian friend has developed a crush on you? I don't want to be rude either way, but if she does like me then I want her to know I'm not interested in her that way. I just don't want to embarrass myself in the process if she doesn't like me :P
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Well, if I were you I would just tell her that you do not like it when people are all over you and touching you a lot. That might help her realize that you do not like her in a romantic way.(Thats if shes interested in you in that way)And being that you guys are best friends she shouldn't take that offensively
Or, if I was in your position the next time i hung out with her I would talk about a cute guy in one of your classes and ask her advice if you should ask him to a movie or not. Even if your not going to talk to the guy or whoever it might remind her that your straight and that you guys are nothing more then good friends.
The last thing is to put yourself in her position. If you were her how would you want your best friend to tell you that shes straight?
I hoped this helped, if you have any other questions feel free to ask :)
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Well, the best bet, is to just ask her, if she's a true friend, she'll understand, being gay and being asked by a straight friend, is expected, trust me, I know... Let her know that you'll be there for her as a good friend, but nothing more then a close friend, she may be gay, but she's still a female and females are more understanding then males.....
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