I'm not a expert or have a degree in Psychology, but I've been known to give good advice and have a bit of a nac for giving advice....
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Hello.
My name is Lilian Owoka, i went through your profile today at www.advicenators.com and i wish to continue relationship with you if nature will permit we have a long way to go.
to tell you more about myself and including some pictures of myself too. I will like you to get back to me through my private email (lilianowo@yahoo.com)
Thanks from Lilian
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What's this about and why would I need pics of you?
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It started out with 1 guy noticing I had camel toe. Now every day it's pointed out to me. I don't know why I have it all the time. I asked my mom and she told me that it's normal but I know it's not because my friends don't usually have camel toe. Is there like something wrong with me and my part is bigger than other girls or something? AND how do I get rid of this stupid camel toe thing? It seems like everybody always focuses on it to laugh at me and stuff even when I dress really nice. Help (link)
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You can wear skirts, dresses, 1-2 size bigger jeans or some padded like underwear that have pads in the front for the thighs... But there isn't really anything wrong with you, its normal for women to have different shapes and sizes....
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My boyfriend lives with his mom in a basement because his dad was really mean to him and so they moved away from him. His dad lives in Florida and they live in virginia. His dad never talks to him like once on the phone every 3 months, and is very mean to him and calls him ugly and that he has no purpose in life and his father said the world would be a better place without him. It's really mean and Im always there for him and this christmas he gave his dad a christmas card. And his dad didn't even give him anything. He emailed the mom and said some really mean things that he was so grateful some other person gave him a christmas card and he didn't even mention my boyfriends card. He made fun of them and it was really mean. I don't remember it because i didn't read it. But the mom told me about it last night. I feel really bad for him. How can I help him and what should I tell my boyfriend? his mom and the man are still not divorced and she's going to divorce him sometime soon. He doesn't have a dad and his dad makes him feel terrible please help him.... :( (link)
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Well, his dad sounds like a dead beat dad... Tell him to disown his dad, its hard, I bet, but for a father to put his son down so badly, means his dad doesn't like himself, cares about no one other then his self and needs to be disown by his son... If you have a father and your boyfriend and you are in a serous relationship, maybe your father can be some what of a dad to him and if he's ever going to feel better about himself and have a better life, then he needs to let his father go, cause his father isn't worth it, have your boyfriend, maybe write his father or tell his father on the phone that he's done with him and tired of his criticism and don't care what he says anymore.... But little steps from your part will help him, he has to do it himself or he'll never feel good about himself....
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My best friend is a lesbian and has been for awhile now. I think she came out to me like 2 years ago now. Anyway, lately she's been hanging all over me, begging me to spend more time with her, and everything. Sometimes I feel like she's flirting with me because she's all about cuddling on me and really touchy. I know like a two months ago her gf broke up with her so I guess she could just be lonely and clingy but she wasn't this way with me before. How can you tell if your lesbian friend has developed a crush on you? I don't want to be rude either way, but if she does like me then I want her to know I'm not interested in her that way. I just don't want to embarrass myself in the process if she doesn't like me :P (link)
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Well, the best bet, is to just ask her, if she's a true friend, she'll understand, being gay and being asked by a straight friend, is expected, trust me, I know... Let her know that you'll be there for her as a good friend, but nothing more then a close friend, she may be gay, but she's still a female and females are more understanding then males.....
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i have this friend and everyone says we should get together because were always fighting but we always fix it before the day is over this happens in school we dont really talk out of school iv asked question about him already on this website and they all tell me the same thing his into me and i like him back but i dont know what to do about this were on break now so i havent seen him but when we get back how do i get his attention how do i get him to tell me how he sees me without asking im kinda shy when it comes to that and he doesnt think i like him even though i do im just that good at hideing it so i dont know what to do now ? (link)
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Well, if your a girl, then maybe have a friend tell him you like him, but your to shy to tell him and if he really like you, have a friend tell him to come tell you and if he tells you, you won't be as shy anymore, your inner heart and humanity will take over, trust me.... But if he's shy to, then one of you has to make a move or you may never know, still have a good or best friend find out for you or try to find a place where you two will be alone and try to get the nerve to ask him if he likes you, its hard when your shy, trust me, I know (I'm shy), the worst that can happen, is that he'll tell you he doesn't like you in that way, but then at least you'll know and can move on... But if you a gay male, its harder, a best friend would be the best bet and then getting him alone....
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My boyfriend has started asking me if I want to be fingered. I don't know what to do. I told him I don't know. But he keeps asking me this for a while now. I'm just afraid that he might while we're at school. Advice needed A.S.A.P!!! (link)
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Well, if your a Female and your a Virgin, just tell him your not ready and asking me as much as he may be asking, you feel pressured and if he cares for you, then he'll understand... if your not a virgin, then being fingered won't hurt you in any way and if you feel like you want to try it, then give him a time and place and let him know that you want to try, but your afraid and if he cares, he'll understand and wait till you really feel ready, but if your not into that, then just tell him your not into that, (its not a really big deal), its not like being a virgin and having intercourse, like I said if you are a virgin, let him know your not ready.... Same kinda goes for gay guys, its a little different, but not by much.....
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