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is this supposed to happen after sex?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 11:14 pm

19/f

the other night my boyfriend and i were having sex and we did it for about an hour and towards the end i didn't feel "wet" anymore and it started to hurt. I figured that it was just like that because we had sex for a long time but i still feel abnormally dry down there. is this normal?

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am I freaking out for no reason?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 9:14 pm

Hey you guys I just wanted to know if you think I am freaking out or not! ok so everytime I text a boy (that I like) and he don't answer or when I say heyy and he says hey but than don't answer back I freak out and I think he don't like me. Am I over reacting? I also freak out and think they don't wanna talk to me when I say hey and they reply hi, am I over reacting about all of this? -thanks Madison 13/f

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AWWHH tear tear :'(


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 5:54 pm

WEll im gunna get started i think my boyfriend is gunna brake up with me because i only kissed him once and we have been going out for a long time now and i want ot but i cant im shy help need tips


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My ridiculous amounts of baggage + new guy = huh?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 3:17 pm

Hi, 23/f. There's a new guy in my life (23/m). He's an old friend from high school with whom I recently reconnected.
I'm basically a walking pile of baggage. I have some health problems; I've been cheated on, I've been emotionally, verbally, and physically abused by past boyfriends, and I know I haven't healed. I have PTSD to the point that, even though I have a protection order against him and it's been months since I got away from the physical abuser, I still can't go to the grocery store without having anxiety attacks.
This new guy has been hurt, too, but not to the extent that I have (he's a sweet, sensitive fella), and we kind of established last night that we have the same fears about relationships. We're both afraid o...

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Is giving him a second chance the right thing to do?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 2:28 pm

15 f

I won't get into full detail, so it won't be so long. Well, January 5th was on my anniversary with my boy friend, it's been a year now..well, apparently he gave a note to my ex friend..( He use to like her before we started dating, she was the one who brought us together.) He said that he still had feelings for her, and all of this. She told me before he could, and I blew up over it. He told me it was to resolve everything with her, he wanted her to say that she didn't like him in that way, ( which she didn't like him in that way). Now, my whole family believes that he's a jerk and they hate him. I love him very much, and he begged me to not break up with him, he says he loves me and he doesn't want to be with anyone els...

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why am i not happy in this perfect relationship?


Posted Friday January 7 2011, 11:03 am

i dont know whats wrong with me, but i'm so unhappy. i have really bad self confidence problems, and all of high school i wanted a boyfriend and someone to love me, and now that i have that i continue to be extremely unhappy. my boyfriend is so good to me, he cares for me and loves me so much, he would never cheat on me or talk to another girl, and he is always there for me. the only part that kind of bothers me is that he has been with many girls in the past, he has had sex with 7 girls and i am a virgin. he also hurt me in the past, but not badly. it took me a while to get over it and i have spent countless hours cryign and being upset over this boy. when i was upset about him last year all i awnted was for us to be going out, and now tha...

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Girls Only (With sexual experience)


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 10:58 pm

Since i calmed down , mary and i are going to sleep but everytime were in bed but we start making out and then we started having sex but she wants me to go a little slower whats wrong (I dont know if this helps but i used a condom)

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i need a way to get somewhere far away


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 9:14 pm

hi, im fourteen and i need to go to illinios to see the girl of my dreams and i need to no the easiest way to do it....i take all suggestions and i have tried to get family to take me but they wont so help me plz

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Someone knows


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 8:38 pm

my brother saw me and mary kissing in a store and came up and said "i know what you did" and put the message on my facebook page and i locked my page but im afraid my mom might find me what should 'cause im freaking out and mary is trying to keep me calm me down.HELP

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Ways to be more flirty


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 8:27 pm

Ok so I am looking for some ways to be flirty, like some good tips!! Because for some reason this year after I lost my best friend because she turned let's say bad no guys talk to me anymore just because I've lost my flirtyness. Guess you could say because I don't hang out with her anymore. Thanks(:

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What should i do? love? or something that can be love? IDK!! I don't want to cheat! :(


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 7:58 pm

i love my boyfriend, hes my life and heart,
problem is, he lives miles away at the moment. hes everything i wanted and he matters so much to me.
I met this guy, he lives close but not that close, he is funny, actually hysterical, makes me smile hes cute and just have that crushon him.
me and my bf cant talk much, but when i talk to him i forget about this other guy, and since we cant talk i feel like im going to this other boy.
I dont know if he feels the same way though about me(the other guy), were at an awkward stage.
i wouldnt cheat on my bf. but i feel i need to get over this crush. no matter how much i dont wanna. he makes me happy.
What do i do?

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How do I make myself more appealing


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 7:27 pm

how do i become even more appealing to my bf. personality and looks. also what can i do to add a spark to the relationship. were not very lovey dovey thx

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feel prettier


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 7:13 pm

how do i make myself feel prettier and more feminine if i wear make up already

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feeling insufficient


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 6:41 pm

On a day to day basis, i use eyeliner, and id say i dress fine. either ill wear boots with jeans/leggings and a top or on a comfortable day just a sweatshirt and pants. ive never had an issue with getting guys or talking to them, and im often told im very good looking. first of all, i COMPLETELY disagree. i constantly feel like im ugly or there is something wrong with me. no matter how many times i hear i am not, i will always feel ugly and out of place. also, i feel like maybe i dont come off as very girly. i really want to become more of a girly person but i dont know what i can really do. i wear make up jewelry and nail polish. i just don't think im flirty as a person, so i come off less feminine. is it true that guys are much more attra...

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is it going to work out


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 6:21 pm

ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months i see him every weekend but we really dont have much to talk about untill we are in person and it feels like he only wants one thing for me then it doesnt i feel that im am confused and dont know what to do . his the type of guy who really doesnt talk bout things but you can tell on his face his thinkin about it but i enjoy being with him i just dont want this to break off

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Prom Date Trouble!


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 6:01 pm

ok so me and my crush michael have been nonstop flirting with each other since last year (11th grade) and i always though he would ask me to prom. then he asked this other girl in my grade paula. i was a bit upset but i got over it. then they decided they didnt want to go with each other anymore...believe me, i wasnt too sad about that. then i thought he would ask me but a month went by and nothing happened. so when this pretty nerdy kid in my grade, moe, asked me to prom i figured no one else would ever ask me so i said yes. then michael asked this girl rebecca who only said yes to him because i told her i like him and shes a home wrecker. ok so now i spoke to michael and he said he was going to ask me and he wants to go with me now but mo...

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Break up or stay together?


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 5:56 pm

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. Were both still in high school and in love. I know we're young, but we've been together for 13 months now and i honestly do love the kid to death. Unfortunately, I'm not too pleased right now :( He's an assshole. He smokes weed a lot, and cigs. When he does smoke, he never texts me back. It gets annoying. He never calls me, even when i ask. Well here's the problem.

He has a friend, who is a girl my age. They sit next to each other in a class and they talk a lot. She used to text him all the time with " ;)" or " ;p" They seem to flirt a lot. When i ask him about her, he'll say that he loves me and only wants me.. blah blah blah. In the halls during school we'll be walking and ...

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should i settle? or leave him?


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 4:00 pm

i'm 21, my bf is 23, the other girl is 21.
me and my bf have been together for almost a year. about 3 months ago we split up for like a week. he confessed during this time he met a girl (i asked who was this person trying to contatnly call and texting him ) and he said they went out on a date during that time and he kissed her but he realised he really cared about me and thats why he came back to me
he first said he already deleted her and eventho he first lied about her he came clean about her, i discovered he didnt deleted her when he said, but i know they havent talked cause she sends msgs like i dont know why you stopped talking to me etc , she's been trying to contact him ever since ! sending him messages asking to be a...

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Attraction


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 11:31 am

Okay, really random here but I'm tired of wondering if I'm just a freak of nature here, anyone else have an attraction to Johnny Depps' Mad Hatter?

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6 years anniversary


Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 9:34 am

Hello world, my 6 years anniversary of dating with my boyfriend is coming up and i need all the ideas and places to go celebrate! i want this to be the best romantic day ever. any suggesting ideas? Thanks

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