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feeling insufficient
On a day to day basis, i use eyeliner, and id say i dress fine. either ill wear boots with jeans/leggings and a top or on a comfortable day just a sweatshirt and pants. ive never had an issue with getting guys or talking to them, and im often told im very good looking. first of all, i COMPLETELY disagree. i constantly feel like im ugly or there is something wrong with me. no matter how many times i hear i am not, i will always feel ugly and out of place. also, i feel like maybe i dont come off as very girly. i really want to become more of a girly person but i dont know what i can really do. i wear make up jewelry and nail polish. i just don't think im flirty as a person, so i come off less feminine. is it true that guys are much more attracted to flirty girls? although people tell me im very attractive, i dont really think i catch people's eyes. i feel like im never checked out by guys at school and noone ever really tries for my number. i know this q is really stupid and annoying, but i just wonder. how can i feel better, look better, and be better?
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This is not an issue of how you look. You obviously already have the looks. Its about how you feel, and right now you don't feel confident. You need to start making moves to help yourself feel as good on the inside as you look on the outside. Don't think of it as a fashion issue. Start asking yourself what kinds of things you like to do and what you're good at and start doing those things. Once you start discovering more about yourself, getting to know who you are and what you like about yourself, that will begin to show on the outside. You'll be a confident person and confidence is the sexiest accessory!
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