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How do I make myself more appealing
how do i become even more appealing to my bf. personality and looks. also what can i do to add a spark to the relationship. were not very lovey dovey thx
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The way you are is why he loves you. He started dating you because he loved the way you looked and your personality. I know you probably already know this, I'm just saying that to make yourself more appealing to him you just need to be more open about the person you are.
In other words, let down your guard a little. Don't think about the way you look and what he thinks about it, KNOW that he thinks you're gorgeous and flaunt it! Let down little vulnerabilities and be a little more comfortable with really expressing your personality completely to him.
Not every couple is lovey dovey, but if you want to me more like that then I would suggest being more open again. Like, not being afraid to cuddle up and kiss him when you feel affectionate.
I guess the 'spark' is different to everyone, but I think a lot of it is just being what I've been saying you should be: a little more open. Being a little immature sometimes, a bit careless, not worrying about things, being impulsive.
I think something great would be alone time, as in a holiday or a weekend away somewhere. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you and your boyfriend are old enough to go away somewhere even if its a few hours away from home then do it. If you're not old enough to go away anywhere, then do something maybe a little out of the ordinary. Try something new that you two haven't done before (paintball? rock climbing?) or even just do something that both of you love to do and haven't done in a while. Weekly dates to a restaurant or cinema are nice and romantic too.
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