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Break up or stay together?
I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. Were both still in high school and in love. I know we're young, but we've been together for 13 months now and i honestly do love the kid to death. Unfortunately, I'm not too pleased right now :( He's an assshole. He smokes weed a lot, and cigs. When he does smoke, he never texts me back. It gets annoying. He never calls me, even when i ask. Well here's the problem.
He has a friend, who is a girl my age. They sit next to each other in a class and they talk a lot. She used to text him all the time with " ;)" or " ;p" They seem to flirt a lot. When i ask him about her, he'll say that he loves me and only wants me.. blah blah blah. In the halls during school we'll be walking and he'll talk to her in front of me when he knows it makes me really mad. She told me she doesn't like him but it seems like they do have something.... When we fight, talking it out gets rid of the problem but he never changes for the better. BTW, he always asks for sex or head. But i don't think he's using me considering he does spend a lot of money on me and can be such a sweet heart at times. Plus his friends tell me good things. Except they call me his bitch ? Not good! I need advice before i lose my head /:
Am i just jealous? Am I just over exaggerating? Do you think they like each other? Should i leave him or stay together?
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Wow. I was in EXACTLY the same situation, and here's how. He was a jerk. Drank a lot. Told me he loved me, made me look him in the eye when he said it. Had a flirty relationship with a girl in his class. Everyone told me he had me whipped. Asked for head and sex. A lot. And heres what happened. I stayed with him. I loved him. I mever thought he would hurt me. I eventually caved and gave him head. He broke up with me four days later. Told me he only stayed in our 8 month relationship because he was waiting for that. Told me he only liked me when we were hooking up. I found out he told everyone how far we went and how he "had me on a leash" oh and the best part? Hooked up with the girl a day after. Could I have saved myself a lot of this hurt? Yeah. Could you? You decide.
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Ok, let's break this down:
1. Your boyfriend's "an asshole"
2. Your boyfriend smokes weed and cigs, which bothers you.
3. He has a suspicious relationship with another girl.
4. He always asks for sex or head, even though he does spend lots of money on you and he's "sweet" sometimes (hmmm..wonder why?)
5. His friends refer to you as "his bitch".. which makes you wonder what HE calls you when he's with his friends.
Hmmm.. this seems pretty simple. I think you already know what needs to happen in order to maintain your dignity and self respect. Question is, do you have the guts to do it?
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your young so your going to feel a little confused , i know i was maybe you guys need to have a one on one talk with each other about the things that are going on. and if they cant be fixed then you either live with em or live with out em cause not everybody going to be perfect everybody has a down fall ... and about his friend they prolly did like each other use to tho and now good friends i know that happen with me b4 . and this whole lil his friends call you his bitch thing is not cool whats so ever ! you need to tell him his friends need to respect you are not nobody bitch .... but what im trying to say is try and work things out but if it doesnt go right you gonna have to break it up good things dont last forever
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