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Prom Date Trouble!
ok so me and my crush michael have been nonstop flirting with each other since last year (11th grade) and i always though he would ask me to prom. then he asked this other girl in my grade paula. i was a bit upset but i got over it. then they decided they didnt want to go with each other anymore...believe me, i wasnt too sad about that. then i thought he would ask me but a month went by and nothing happened. so when this pretty nerdy kid in my grade, moe, asked me to prom i figured no one else would ever ask me so i said yes. then michael asked this girl rebecca who only said yes to him because i told her i like him and shes a home wrecker. ok so now i spoke to michael and he said he was going to ask me and he wants to go with me now but moe is so excited to go to prom with me and i dont want to to hurt him but i really want to go with michael! what should i do??
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Go with the guy who had you as his first choice? Or go with the guy who had you as his third choice?... Yeah. Hey just cause you go to prom with someone you don't have to date them... You don't even have to dance with him the whole time. Ask micheal to be in your group and there ya go you'll still spend the evening with him.
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Go with Moe, He was kind enough to ask you. The worst thing you can do is kill a man's pride and then blow him off. Micheal had plenty of time to ask you to the prom and he didn't. Who cares if the kid is nerdy, It isn't all about looks. If you want you can ask Michael to dance when you get to the prom but don't blow off Moe either that would be the wrong thing to do.
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You go with Moe. Explain to Michael that you had really been hoping to go with him, but since he took so long to make up his mind you accepted another invitation. And it would be so unkind to leave Moe hanging just because something better came along. How would you feel if you were dumped like that when you were really looking forward to something? There's no reason why you and Michael can't enjoy being around each other at the prom, even if you aren't official dates. And going with Moe may turn out to be more fun, if you try to have a good attitude about it. There's no romantic pressure and you can just have fun, knowing you don't have to impress him in anyway. Honor your commitment. I know its disappointing that you can't go with michael, but its his own fault, so why should Moe have to suffer for that? Its the right thing to do, and you'll never regret doing the right thing.
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