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My boyfriend's getting rough and pushing for sex
Posted Thursday April 7 2011, 8:46 pm
Name key (fake names):
Me: Annabeth
Boyfriend: Jaysyn
I'm 16, a sophomore in high school. My boyfriend, Jaysyn, is a senior, 18. He's really sweet, and it didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. I met him last year when I was a freshmen and he was a junior, and we started dating one month later. He was always very sweet and understanding about the whole sex thing: he wanted it, but every time I tried, I told him the truth--I'm no where near being ready for that, even if I might want it. Every time I said so, he was really sweet, saying he understood and wouldn't dream of making me do anything I wasn't ready to do. Lately, he's been going back on that promise. He's been getting kind of physica...
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In love with someone who doesnt feel the same about me
Posted Thursday April 7 2011, 7:50 pm
I have fallen in love with someone who doesnt feel the same. when he's infront of me he's like the sweetest person in the world, everyone who knows us are always saying what a good couple we'd make, people already think we're dating! however, when he isn't around me, say we dont see eachother for a bit he'd completely ignore me. well, ive fallen in love with him now and i cant get him out my head. he is not interestd as i told him how i feel, he told me staight up hes not interested and he has a girl. but i dont understand why he gets jelous when i talk to other boys though. he still stays with me all day at work, we have a laugh, he just doesnt want a relationship. he stares at me, touches me, jokes about and shows he cares but i really do...
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I got dumped.. but we want to be friends..
Posted Thursday April 7 2011, 7:43 pm
So my boyfriend broke up with me today. He was really stuttering along trying to get his words out there and I just knew he was gonna end it by the way he was talking and stuff. So I just took it expectantly. And we went on our ways.
Later he texted me and after a while I decided to text back because I was unsure if I should but I decided I needed closure and to find out what happened.
This is how it went:
Him: 'I'm so sorry. I hope we can still be friends. I just need some time"
Me: "Alright, and you really think that "just being friends' will work or are you just saying that as a popular breakup line? You can tell me the truth, I want to know."
Him: "I hav...
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3 year age different..
Posted Thursday April 7 2011, 7:39 pm
hello all...lately ive given up on finding a boyfriend a stick to messing around with people. But this one guy did make a move on me. his name is Efrain; dominican, and a senior..hes a real sweetie but..theres a three year difference..we arent even supposed to be dating supposedly.
some of my friends say not to mess around with that..others say screw the law.i agree with that point of course but...what should i do?
hugs&rockets---Michelle
hes 18/m (birthday august 18) im 15/f (birthday june 25)
oh and we're still 'talking'
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We broke up... now we sit next to each other in class?
Posted Thursday April 7 2011, 8:34 am
HEy ok so my boyfriend and i broke up like 2 months ago now in school we sit RIGHT next to eachother and like he will always turn and look at me and i will say what and he will smile and look away what is he trying to say?!?! oh and then other times hes all flirty with other girls:( haha ok plzz help!
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I like my future brother-in-law :-/
Posted Thursday April 7 2011, 2:44 am
My brother has met the love of his life, and they are talking about getting engaged- our families have already met, and he has talked to her parents about it. They are going to officially get engaged, i'm thinking within the next 2-3 months.
A couple months ago, our families met. I am very much attracted to her brother, who is going to be my future brother in-law. This is such an awkward/difficult situation for me to be in. I found myself attracted to him physically, personality-wise, etc., and it seemed like the attraction was possibly mutual, but then again, he's a really nice guy, and it could have meant nothing. Either way, I feel like there's nothing I can do about this.
We are both facebook friends, and i...
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Girl I work with
Posted Thursday April 7 2011, 12:46 am
OK to start off I've worked with this girl for about four or five months now and we've just recently started full-on talking like a month and a half ago.
SO - We had been talking pretty intensively and I started to become interested in her, so I took the bold route and just came out and told her how I felt, her response was "I'm not really looking to DATE anyone right now because I had just ending things with my ex" Which is completely understandable and I told her I was ok with it because I didn't want to rush into anything either, and we've still been talking just as regularly ever since...
My question is, do you think there is a possibility she feels the same about me?
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I am attracted to my friend's partner
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 11:57 pm
so im in a relationship with this guy mike and we have been dating for 3 months and we hang out with this other couple dj and nick, but im attracted to nick and i like him but i dont kno what to do...i need advice ?
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Need advice regarding a breakup
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 10:58 pm
Recently my girlfriend of 2 years told me that she wanted to take a break. We are in a long distance relationship and I live in Japan and she lives in America. I always thought we were a solid couple and I still love her a lot. I talked to her on the phone today and told her all of my feelings. She said that the reason she wants to take a break is because she only has 1 month left of college studying abroad in America before she comes back to Japan to study, and wants to spend time with friends there before she has to return to school in Japan. I'm really confused because she said she loves me and stuff but that she just feels conflicted because she wants to spend time talking to me and also doing things with her friends and that she d...
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trying to find a boyfriend..:\
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 10:06 pm
i don;t know what is wrong with me but i feel so lonely and i want a boyfriend soo badly :S
lol
does anyone have any tips on how i can find people or go out and date? anything on the subject would be great. or any experiences you have gone through thanks ..:)
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figuring out what she really means
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 7:46 pm
Alright, well, my girlfriend broke up with me, but says she wants to be friends, and that the reason she broke up with me was because she wasnt ready for a relationship yet she was the one that asked me out!!! To say the least Im confused and wondering if she is being real or if she doesnt want to let go of the single life, hooking up whenever you feel like
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Boyfriend troubles:(
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 7:45 pm
Okay so my boyfriend and I were the perfect couple always g0ot along and the odd time had arguments. Now, he's been acting really differently towards me as if he loves me less and it's freaking me out. I think it might have something to do with that he found out I danced with someone at a party a long time ago but yeah:( I need help I really want too be with him but is that what's best? thank you so much :) btw, I'm 15 and he's 16
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Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 7:38 pm
how do u tell your boyfriend that you want to be with them?
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Is he wrong for me or am I just superficial?
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 7:27 pm
Theres this guy Ive been friends with for many months and been dating for over a month. Hes a frickin weirdo and my friends hate him. I come from a conservative New England town and he stands out in wifebeaters and skinny jeans. His friends are the same way-- weird. He goes to com college and never tried in high school, whereas I'm an overachieving senior heading to a competitive school next year. And hes not attractive. My friends are trying to convince me that he's not right for me at all-- and from what I've just said, its obvious to see why. But he's seriously one of the nicest people I've ever met, and the biggest thing is that we share the same morals. He doesnt drink or do drugs, and he believes in treating women with respect. He tre...
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I don't like texting my boyfriend...
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 6:03 pm
Well, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month now (I know that's not that long) and we are both in high school. Well, it seems in the beginning of our relationship he always put forth a bit of effort into keeping conversation going. But now he just seems not too..
He usually texts me first in the morning and we text until we get to school. And then after school he immediately texts me so I don't think it's because he doesn't want to talk to me..
But even then he just doesn't keep a conversation going and has really short responses and it's boring. I've said before "You start a conversation now" and "You sure can't keep a conversation going(:" but he just says something like ...
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playing around vs. sincere interest in someone
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 6:02 pm
If someone flirts with you daily, is there any way you can know that it's more likely sincere interest rather than something they're doing for fun?
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Who do I like?
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 5:19 pm
I know two guys that I like, but they are so different! One is funny and I have fun with him a lot, but the other is so imaginative and sweet! Who do I choose? The first one teases me, but I know he likes me, but the other is close to my personality, but I blew him off without meaning to! Please help me! P.S. I am pretty young and female.
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I met a boy in middle school ;-}
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 2:01 pm
One day I wrote a note a boy I like and asked who he liked and he said me and when he asked me I wrote you-him.So now you know what happened we are at the problem part.So we now know,and I want to be around him and he`s sorta avoiding me.We did sit next to each other 2 times but it`s been a while.Btw he gave me a turtle keychain.So here`s the question:What do I do to make him want to be around me.Another tidbit is in the play my school is doing I am placed next to the guy that has had the biggest crush on me since I moved to that school.Sooooooo ya *please help*
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Ex wants to exchange our things...
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 8:54 am
22/f.
So typical breakup dilemma. My ex and I had a terrible breakup about a week ago. His last words to me were 'Go slash your wrists and die you bitch' I responded telling him never contact me again. I was the one who broke up with him as I got sick of us fighting. As miserable as I've been (and god I have been) I was starting to accept he was out of my life.
Then I get a message today telling me he wants to meet in person to "simply exchange our things in a pleasant manner." I'm like, sure, ok, whatever. He suggests this park where we "went for ice cream once." I suggest he just post the stuff to me, and he just ignores that and asks what day/time would suit me.
I have a D...
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Where do I stand with this guy? And what should I do?
Posted Wednesday April 6 2011, 12:37 am
So me and this guy went to a school dance together last Saturday (April 2). (we’ve both been really flirty and talking a lot the past couple weeks and I’m pretty sure he likes me too) Anyway, we both had an amazing time. We went out to dinner before and had a lot of fun, then we went to the dance and danced the entire time, he kissed me a couple times, and it was just awesome. The only problem is, we never see each other at school. We see each other sometimes, but it’s mainly just texting. I’d like to hang out with him more, since we had such a great time together at the dance. Should I suggest hanging out, or wait for him? I don’t want to lose another guy just because I was too shy/insecure to ask him if he wants to hang out. (I ...
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