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HIV


Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 1:51 pm

I am a 21 year old female with a 10 month old daughter. Her father and I broke up for a period of 3 months, and during that time, both him and I have been with other sexual partners. As ashamed as I am, I had unprotected sex for just a few minutes(I know time doesn't matter) and he also did. I'm not sure of exactly what he did, because I do not want to know for emotional reasons, however, do need to know for health reasons. I do know he slept with someone unprotected. I got tested for STD's 2 and a half months after these incidents occurred and me and him were sleeping together again. I tested positive for Chlamydia and took antibiotics immediately to cure it. HIV came up negative but it was only at 2 and a half months testing. I've read al...

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Missing too much school


Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 9:35 am

Hey there.
I'm an 18 yo Female! : )

Basically school started on August 25th, and I've already missed 4 classes in a row in the past 2 weeks. Last week I had a cold and my doctor said I was too sick to go to school, and this week I had pink eye. so I've had to stay off.

Tomorrow's going to be the 4th day of class I've missed. I've been e-mailing my teachers letting them know what's going on. I just don't want to be completely lost when I go back to class, I've been keeping up with the work.

Do yall think there's anything else I should do? I don't want them to think I'm skipping.

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Slighlty Confused- What should I do?


Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 8:59 am

Alright, I'm a new member here so this will be my "first" post.. My name is Chase, 13 and am in 8th grade.. I'm kinda curious about a couple of things, and how I should handle them..

I really like this one girl, we started talking for the first time back in March or so.. I thought things were going well for a while, I knew she didn't have feelings for me like I had for her, but I was fine w/ that..

A few months later it seemed that she started liking me, throughout the summer during school break we're talking pretty often and I thought things were going quite well..

Around a month ago, shortly before school started, her friends (which were busy doing other stuff during summer) started ...

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what if?


Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 6:59 am

Hi, i am 17 and my bf is 18. And last weekend we were kinda fooling around yeah it involved protection, me still a virgin went along with it to see what it was like, anyway i am not on the pill but he used protection how likely is it that i am pregnant cuz idk and i am afraid of that ... i've also ben feeling kinda sick for the past few day that isnt helping or it could be that i am gust making myself sick about thinking of it. I plan to wait untill my monthely which is in a weeks time, but i gust need help decifering if i could be or not.. and yeah i know buying a pregnancy kit would work gust as well which i may resort to on the weekend.
also no the protection didnt break and he only took it off after he was done, keeping all fluid...

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my girl hasn't made me orgasm...


Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 6:24 am

18/M

First off, I must say, there are so few males that post on this site. Lol.

Anyways, I'm a little worried since my girlfriend hasn't made me orgasm yet. She is pretty good at what she does, and we've gotten very intimate in the past week or so. However, we agreed not to have sex until a bit later. I've made her cum twice before but she can't make me for some reason- I get soft before it happens despite the fact that I'm really turned on. Does someone know why this is?
Thank you

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I think I have an actual obsession with him.


Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 12:44 am

female
13 years old.

Zack. Zack Garrett. I love him with all my heart, and I know what any of you reading this are thinking..it'll pass over. Someone else will come along. Well.. I've tried to let go after we broke up. I shunned all contact from him and didn't keep any reminders. Explored the single world you know? Well he was my best love. It's hard to imagine better until it happens.

When shunning him didn't exactly work, and I stopped, all the memories and thoughts of him invaded my mind almost immediately. I currently talk to him, and things are looking up for me again. I think we may hook up.

But this isn't the problem. The problem is, had I really thought of only him for a month str...

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Cutting...


Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 12:42 am

well...i cut myself sometimes and like i dont a lot and never even close to deep or anything but i still end up with scars of course. i cut on my hips so no one sees but now im wondering what to do if i get a boyfriend and he wants to finger me. i can't trust anyone but my best friends to know about my cutting and i dont feel ready to tell anyone else because im afraid of what a guy would think. my ex who i told was all wird about it and he was my best friend and i thought i could trust him. i definitely cant. what should i tell a guy if they see??? and would they be freaked out? im getting help and everything so please dont lecture..

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does he like me?


Posted Wednesday September 10 2008, 12:19 am

i am really starting to like this guy at school and well i don't know him very well, kinda just met him. So like the first day i find out we like the same music so we talked about that. Then like the next day we had to do a presentation in class. So like at lunch i was with one of my friends and he was nearby so he walks over and says "hey your presentation was really good. mine kinda sucked." And we kinda talked but not so much. Pretty much it is still pretty much small talk, but I ran into him today and he gives me this smile which was personally the cutest smile I have ever seen. When I say it all like this it sounds pretty convincing that he likes me but idk because he is really friendly and has a lot of girls as friends. He i...

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Car Sex.


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 11:49 pm

Now I've had sex before, and it's not like this is my first time or anything. Lately, I've been wanting to have sex with this guy in my car. (My house has been ridiculously crowded.)

But I want it to be completely unplanned... well for him at least. I don't want to be like "Hey, let's have sex in my car!". I want to kind of just have it happen, but I have no idea how to move things from the front to the back seat, or how to just park. Or even how to just start driving aimlessly.

How should I get it into the backseat without saying it? Better yet, how do I get him to just drive around with me aimlessly?

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Love Triangle Dilemna


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 11:30 pm

I was almost in love with this guy but he chose to go back to his ex instead of being with me. He told me before he actually decided to get back with her that he really liked me a lot as a friend, but then he said he wanted me to come back to him and that he hoped i wasn't with any body or anything, and then finally before i came back he reconciled with his ex. But, it seemed to me like he still has underlying feelings for me But i have begin to get closer to his roomate. I wonder if this bothers him that we have spent time together or i wonder if he has told him that it is okay for him to be with me or if they have discussed me at all? I know you all don't know the answer but i'd like an opinion on any part of this if possible.

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junior and freshman rivalry


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 11:27 pm

okay so I have this friend who's a junior and I'm a freshman. my friend gets mad at me because I never said hi to her parents when they drove us home and to school but I did. I said hi and bye and thank you but she said I got no manners and I'm disrespectful but I'm not. and today I talked to her and asked her if she was mad at me and she said yeah because it's weird how she said all that shit to me but I didn't take it seriously. but I did. she said that I should at least ask her for a ride but I didn't know that she wanted one and if she did she could at least ask. and I told her that. but she said that she shouldn't have to ask me for ride and that I shouldve offered but I didn't know that I was suppose to like I'm kinda slow but she ju...

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What to do?


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 11:12 pm

17/f, Boyfriend 20/m

So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 5 months today. The other day I asked my boyfriend if he thought he was in love and he said yes and asked the question back. and all I could manage to say was I don't know first. and I went on to say that I loved him but wasn't IN love with him. I know that's bad admitting that to him and it's already been over a year. He understood.. i think. I went on to saying that If I was in love with him, I'd know. I would have told him. That, that's one of the reasons why I haven't given him my virginity and the other was that he's not a virgin like me and it wouldn't be AS special as it would be if he was and also that I wasn't ready and what not... but back to the poi...

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a boy..


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 10:49 pm

okay so what' s a good way to get a guy without being obvious. How do you play hard to get? I'm trying but it's not working. He doesn't seem interested, like sometimes he does but then at other times he doesn't. So how do I go about making him want me more? haha it sounds selfish but I'm just curious! thanks!

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What is the theme?


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 10:26 pm

What is the theme in The golden goose , emporers new clothes, and sleeping beauty?

Im stuck.
AHHH.
:|

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wavy hair


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 10:24 pm

hi i was wondering if you braid your hair when its damp and apply a curling mousse before you braid it and leave it in over night if you can get wavy (not frizzy) hair? thanks so much

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i want boots like these!


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 10:12 pm

i absolutely love these boots, but HATE the price...

http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=556&itemID=50394&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

i'm not paying that much for boots. i don't want to spend more than $40-50. anyone know where i can find some very similar to that- tall brown/tan leather boot, no (or very very small) heel, and rounded toe?

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Pregnant on Period!?


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 9:52 pm

I had sex about 3 weeks ago on my period & we didn't use a condom!


Whats the possiblity of me being pregnant?


I've had sex with him before without a condom & never got pregnant!

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My guy friend, is not my guy friend.....


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 9:33 pm

Female, 15.
Hi, the school year just started and it's only the 4th day of school. I am a sophmore. And i had this crush on a guy at school since last year. But this year my friend keeps calling him on my cell phone, and he thinks that its me prank calling him. Then just yesterday she shoved me into a door when he was coming out of the class room and made me crash into him!!! Then he got mad. So now he thinks that i am chidish and immature and he is mad at me and i think he might even hate me. Please i need advice on how to fix this!!!!
Thank you in advance!

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My friend is bulimic


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 9:11 pm

She threw up blood today and I don't know how to help her. I need some advice.

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HAIR.


Posted Tuesday September 9 2008, 9:04 pm

whats more damaging to your hair. hair products such as curling gels/creams or hair straighteners?

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