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Picking the right guy
Posted Saturday December 24 2011, 12:50 am
Hi all... Here it is I have been with a guy for 6 years,recently just got engaged. We have has issues around drinking but they were never addressed I always looked past it - finally I have met someone else and decided to call it quits - this guy is wonderful I actually thought he was my soulmate. He takes care of me and life with him would be so different and stress free financially. Since I called it quits now my finance or whatever he shall be called at this time has decided he wants to change, not drink , be affectionate what I have always wanted. He always has a little 5 year old who I have. Know since infancy. Looking on some advice here ... Do guys ever really change , The new guy is head over heals for me and weI think deep down we r...
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Boyfriend called me a bitch. Am I a bitch?
Posted Friday December 23 2011, 9:17 am
Okay, so. I promised my bf I'd send him some of my private stuff. I only promised because he sort of forced me into promising but then I said it was no big deal. So I told him I would send it to him by the end of the day. But it turns out that things went wrong that day and I ran out of time to send it to him. I was gonna text him a sorry but then he called me a bitch for not sending it. How should I react!?
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getting someone to stop liking me and being so clingy!
Posted Friday December 23 2011, 6:35 am
ok so... a guy really likes me. he never said anything but i can just tell cuz he keeps wanting to talk to me online and he's being really clingy. honestly i'm not that into him. now i've got rehearsals of a guitar show and he's going to be there but a guy i really like will also be there. i was hoping i can finally talk to this guy but what should i do so he wouldn't interfere and ruin my chance? i can tell him to stop liking me cuz he probably doesn't even know that i know. any ideas please?
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How To Move On.
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 11:37 pm
About two years ago, I started caring about this guy. Please note that I am only in 8th grade, but have always been more mature than other people. The guy that I liked, well I'd known him since I was younger, and I guess you could call him my first "love". We sat in the same bus seat, talked, and laughed, had the same class schedule, and were just relatively best friends. Texting was always a thing we communicated with, and I helped him through depression, and everything he went through a relationship where another girl went and "cheated" on him.
Then his friends started noticing it, and started pointing it out. And that's where it went downhill from there. Apparently the stress from his friends commentin...
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How do I ask him out, so he can finally be mine?
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 10:27 am
So I'm currently in love with this guy... (I'm 21 f)(he's 22 m). The only thing iss, he is in juvinile lock up right now. I only get to see him on sundays because that is when he gets "pass" and comes home for 12 hours. We usually do a lot of stuff (other than sex,....I don't know what types of deseases he could contract from being in juvy) So we mostly stick to making out. How do I ask him out, so he can finally be mine? I think I'm in love!! Thanks! Btw. He went to juvy for selling drugs to an undercover, so yea...nothing THAT bad...
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how to confess your feelings
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 9:56 am
hi. i am the same person that asked this question http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=600975. i was wondering, if i really decide to tell him how i feel, what would be the best way? text message? in person? i don't think i can get him away from his friends to tell him in person and if i try to talk to him around his friends he might be rude to me and he and his friends might make fun of me or something like that. but i'm not telling him how i feel in order to develop a relationship with him. i'm telling him because i don't want to lie to him, having him think i think of him as just a friend when i really don't. so how should i tell him?
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Crush-trouble, should I walk away from his life
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 2:21 am
Hey. I am a 19 year old girl. I like this guy (he is 21) but he has a girlfriend. We communicate mostly through text. He is a really good friend of mine. I met him last year. And since I started liking him, I started texting even more, in order to get his attention. To be really honest, I was hopeful. And we chatted through texts. He is open, easy going and honest. I told him that I like him through text. He said he can take me on a date. Now we kept texting. But he has a life of his own, and a busy one. I kept texting and it happened so that when he got drunk, we talked dirty. Then after some time I felt disgusted because it seemed like I am a concubine of some sort. So I started insisting on walking away and that also I told him and went ...
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I have a boyfriend but also a crush on someone else...?
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 2:16 am
Hi, I'm 14 and recently started dating one of my really good male friends. I really like him, and want to stay with him for a while. But I have had a crush on another guy who I've talked to like four times the whole year, and it didn't subside when this guy asked me out...but I had a crush on him too. What I'm saying is, is it ok for me to have a crush on someone else while I'm dating someone I like as well, as long as I don't make a move on this crush? I barely talk to this crush and there is no action between us, but I can't help liking him as well as my boyfriend. Is this okay?
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Do I need to get a birthday present for my new boyfriend?
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 2:00 am
I just started dating this guy like a week and a half ago, and his birthday is right around Christmas. We've been friends since the start of the school year, but I don't know if I'm supposed to get him a present...? We are only 14, and not very serious yet. Any advice? Do I need to get him something, and if so, what are some ideas? Thanks.
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We are a couple that is needing different points of views
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 1:34 am
We have been together for a year and a half. I caught him with a tagged account which had numerous conversations where he was flirting with girls. We talked everything over, and he explained that he was not trying to get with the girls. Because I had danced with a guy at a party we went to, he decided to start getting on the website to make himself feel better. To uplift his self esteem. Another reason why he explains he did it was because I always accuse him of wanting sex every time he kisses or touches me. Anyway. He promised to stop with the talking online. Just recently I happened to find another account on Google plus, where he was writing comments on girl's pictures. Initiating that he wanted to talk to them. He says that they never ...
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We are a couple...and we are trying to get different views
Posted Thursday December 22 2011, 1:27 am
We have been together for a year and a half. I caught him with a tagged account which had numerous conversations where he was flirting with girls. We talked everything over, and he explained that he was not trying to get with the girls. Because I had danced with a guy at a party we went to, he decided to start getting on the website to make himself feel better. To uplift his self esteem. Another reason why he explains he did it was because I always accuse him of wanting sex every time he kisses or touches me. Anyway. He promised to stop with the talking online. Just recently I happened to find another account on Google plus, where he was writing comments on girl's pictures. Initiating that he wanted to talk to them. He says that they never ...
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i'm confused and i can't talk to my friends about this.
Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 7:27 pm
there's this one guy that i like but he just happens to be a jerk to everyone, including my friends. i have liked him for years and he's said to other people that he only sees me as a friend. i always think that i am over him but later on i realize that i'm not. i feel really pathetic about wanting someone who doesn't want me in the same way but i can't help myself. there is something about him that i can't help but like. i almost want to tell him how i feel just so i can have him say to myself 'i don't like you that way.' i can't go to my friends because they might feel annoyed and plus they recently got mad at him and i'd feel like i'd be betraying them by liking someone that pissed them off. what should i do about this? i'm tired of being so confused :/
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Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 5:20 pm
wife thinks husband cheated husband did not
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How do I choose between 2 boys? I have a boyfriend, but I like my best friend too!
Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 3:16 pm
Ok... I have a boyfriend and things are great except I really also like my best friend in so confused and need advice who do I pick I'm 14
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Gay man and Straight woman: I slept with him, and now I want him for myself!
Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 2:32 pm
I am a 21 year old girl and I work with a gay man that is about 4 years older than me and is much higher up in the company (I work part time just for money on the side until I graduate in May). Before I begin I want to say that he hasn't done anything wrong--I am leaving the company in a week because I won't be able to work next semester so there's no issues with that.
We have met and talked several times. He has told me about his long term boyfriend (he calls his husband)every time we spoke. They recently broke up and we went out for a drink last night (started out friendly)--neither one of us was drunk the least bit. Long story short, we ended up sleeping together. Afterwards, he stayed over and we just talked and such. ...
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good in bed.
Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 12:40 pm
how is one classified as "good in bed" like what does the guy have to do to be good in bed and what does the girl have to do?
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How to ask him
Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 10:54 am
16/f
My ex wants me back. Near enough fact-all the signs are there and he even meets up with me secretly in college and invites me out which I decline.
The thing is-we talk reely deeply about anything, like his exes, our parents, our worries.
The other day he asked me 'is there anyone interesting you?' so i said no. I asked him and he also said 'no', and then kept going on how theres 'no rush' and 'who knows what will happen' and 'i'd rather be with someone who i've known for years'.
So how do I ask him point blank whether he does actuslly wsnt me back-so i'm clear? Because tbh i can't keep meeting up with him and being so close if we're not together. I need any advice please :)
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i want to date an older man but i already have a boyfriend my own age
Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 1:48 am
i am 12 and this guy is 14 about to be 15 and he wants to date realy bad what should i do? i have a boyfriend my age but i still like this other guy! is he to old for me? also i am a girl.
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i honestly don't even know what to do anymore
Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 11:50 pm
so basically i'm so confused and im tired of bullshit. Why is it so hard for a guy to either tell us they like us, or be honest that they don't. Why do they have to play games? I'm in highschool but i'm one who hates hookups I would rather just have one special person there but it's seriously so hard to find because every guys ends up fucking you over and I'm terribly scared to have that happen. I've only kissed one guy but i've still gotten hurt by others...basically the guy I kissed just flat out stopped talking to me after like 6 months of non offical dating but like we both weren't seeing any one else. He made it clear he liked me and basically spent every weekend with me. Then out of nowhere doesn't talk to me and like ignores me at sc...
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what should I do for him for christmas?
Posted Tuesday December 20 2011, 10:58 pm
What should I do for my guy friend(with benefits) for christmas? We have had a relly close friendship for about 4 weeks. Then he finally made the first move and we kissed. Right now, we are at the hot and heavy stage we are now making out a lot and is about ready to go to the next step. We have tried, but we ran out of time. This Sunday is christmas and I was wondering what I should do for him. I have grinded on him before and gave him a 'hard on'. he has also felt me up before...but not in my 'areas'. So what should I do for him for christmas? Like give him a bj?? Idk!! Please help!!
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