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Boyfriend called me a bitch. Am I a bitch?
Okay, so. I promised my bf I'd send him some of my private stuff. I only promised because he sort of forced me into promising but then I said it was no big deal. So I told him I would send it to him by the end of the day. But it turns out that things went wrong that day and I ran out of time to send it to him. I was gonna text him a sorry but then he called me a bitch for not sending it. How should I react!?
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I only have two words as advice: Dump him. He is not worth your time and he is awful for forcing you to send that. Thank God you didn't have time to, because you saw his true colors. So once again, dump him.
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Don't send him anything private. That can be a very bad situation to get yourself into because then he will have it forever and you will lose control over what happens to it. If he forced you into that is even worse and completely unacceptable. Then on top of that he called you a horrible name because you didn't send it. I think this guy doesn't sound like the right kind of guy for you and maybe you should think about taking some time away from him.
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here's how to react- in a big, gruff voice, tell him to go fuck himself. that fucking r-tard can go jerk off to free shit on the internet if he's got a damn attitude about it. get rid of him.
-Gunner
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private stuff????honey,it is you who is making a mistake,you don't need to send anything like that to someone who loves you or whom you love,that's definetly giving to him a wrong singal about you,you just have to respect yourself and make him respect you,if you don't do that it's obvious that he will treat you like that,even though he has no right to send you such things on the phone it is you who must have the last word sweetie!!!!:)
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You definitely are not. He's acting more like one. Forcing you to send private stuff? He's being controlling. Then he calls you that crap. He's a horrible boyfriend. No girl needs a guy like that..
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you don't sound like a bitch to me. just sounds like he overreacted instead of being patient enough to ask you why you didn't send the private stuff. you didnt do anything wrong.
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Your boyfriend sounds like a controlling ass, If he is forcing you to do something you don't want to do then of course he is not worth it. Controlling someone is NOT a relationship.
Also, Assuming he meant send a picture via text message that is illegal and he can be charged with child pornography. Whether it is deleted or not, Data stores information in the phone just like a computer stores hidden files.
Dump him and move on he doesn't deserve you.
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Not only did he force you into doing something you didn't want to do, he insulted you after.
That's NOT how a boyfriend should act towards you. Does he insult you or make you do things you aren't so sure about on a regular basis?
If I were you, I'd have strong words with him about how his behaviour is unacceptable - it's up to YOU what you do and what you send him. and if he doesn't like it, or keeps on at you to do things you don't want to do, to put it nicely, tell him to **** off and find someone who treats you well.
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