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How to make my wife get over my sex past?
Posted Friday February 3 2012, 3:14 am
I have been married for 25 years. Recently my wife asked me about my past girl friends. At first I did not want to tell her that I had been in bed with my first girl friend. However, I was too nervous to hide and my replies to her questions were with many flaws. Sometimes, the answer was contradictory and beyond common sense. At last, I needed to confess my sex past that I had with my girl friend. At that time she asked me about how we knew, the dates, intimate acts in the course of the dates and finally how we came to bed. Especially on the details of our acts in bed where she insisted that I should mention every details. After that, she felt that I was beyond her belief that she had so trusted me before to have done such thing. She began ...
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I am crushed. He told me he loved me, and wanted to be with me, but now that he CAN be with me I don't see him anymore?
Posted Friday February 3 2012, 12:02 am
Ok plz don't judge me I was havin an affair with someone who has a child and a partner but his partner has now found out and he and her have split and I haven't heard from him was he using me??he told me he loved me said if he could be with me he would and now he can u hasn't even bothered with me :( I don't know what to do I feel hurt and angry at the same time I don't really have friends or anything he was someone who I thought actually cared someone I cud talk to etc now I have noone x
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I'm confused about my feelings! Three guys, and no idea how someone chooses in a situation like this! How do you choose a guy?
Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 11:41 pm
so im female and 16, not that it matters. There are these three guys and i dont know who i like. i feel like im horrrible person to be crushing on all of them at the same time. The first one is really sweet and shy and in a few of my classes. we dont talk much cuz we are both shy. He seems sweet and i had fun when we talked in class. But whenever i see him in the hall he'll wave and say hi, my face goes beat red. the second guy is really funny and makes me laugh a lot. i have fun talking to him and he seems cool. the third is really smart and we have lots of things in common...and we talk a lot lately. i dont know how to decided. i cant really ask you to choose but would any of you give me advice on how to figure it out. I dont even know if they are interested...thanks
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I shave, he doesn't
Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 11:16 pm
I shave my pubic area, not just for my boyfriend, but for myself aswell. But he doesn't. He wants me to go a bit further and go down on him, which I have, but the pubic hair is a bit irritating, and distracting. How do I tell him I want him to shave or at least trim?
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How do I ask my boyfriend to do things in bed?
Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 11:13 pm
So I'm wondering how to get my boyfriend to do a few things... I always hear that guys get upset or it messes with their masculinity or whatever when a woman asks or tells, rather, what to do in bed. How do I let him know what I want without being mean or feeling like an idiot?
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Should I break up with him or not. if i leave him will i be happy or regret it?
Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 7:15 pm
ive been with my boyfriend for 14 months now. and im completely confused. i have so many mixed feelings. we were so happy in the beginning we were perfect, hes my first everything, and im so comfortable with him its crazy. i love him so much. everything he does is cute and he does everything for me. pays for me puts me before anyone will walk in the freezing rain 3 miles to come and see me. hes the best boyfriend anyone could ever ask for. but heres the issue. we started breaking up and making up ever since the middle of summer. when we fight its usually over jealousy or him getting mad at me because i ditched him or whatever. but when we fight they are huge. he gets so angry and yells and freaks out he alwaysflips out. im just getting tire...
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Does he like me?
Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 5:54 pm
Okay well there is this guy in one of my classes. and there is this other really weird creepy dude that follows me wherever i sit at lunch and its really creepy but onoe of my teacher today pukked the creepy kid and me out of class so she couold tell him to stop and the other guy comes out of the room and was like " Dude you need to stop following her, I mean i know she is really pretty but still" Soo i just want to know... Was that his way of flirting with me? Oh and btw he has always been nice to me since he got back from alternative school.
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how do I let snogging lead further?
Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 10:42 am
Okay so me and my boyfriend have snogged loads but I want to go further and so does he but how do I do it? I am 16
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while in a relationship, I keep liking other guys.
Posted Thursday February 2 2012, 10:18 am
I'm 19/f, and my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. Our relationship has been exceptionally great, and he means a lot to me. I told him I love him and I initiated losing my virginity to him, which is a big deal to me. But, apparently I've been feeling like something's missing in our relationship, because I've crushed on other guys WHILE I'm already in a relationship. About 9 months in, I started to notice another guy. I guess it could have been considered emotional cheating, but I didn't do anything to pursue those feelings. I was honest with my boyfriend about it, which I still think was the best thing that I could have done in that situation. We stayed together, talked it out, moved past it, and the crush ...
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Guys Keep Confusing me
Posted Wednesday February 1 2012, 8:45 pm
I liked this guy and he liked me too, he told me, but he has a girlfriend and they are really close. He told me he just wants to be friends, but he rarely ever talks to me. Then I tried to move on and this other guy i started talking to said he liked me and i also liked him, but he also has a gf and acts like he doesnt want anything to do with me. Can anyone help me understand why this keeps happening?
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Do I tell my best friend that i am in love with him?
Posted Wednesday February 1 2012, 5:40 pm
I have known my best friend since second grade. he always stuck up for me. when we entered middle school, i noticed that he was more mature. i told him that i liked him, but that was an understatement. i went away for a couple of years and my feeling are getting stronger. do i tell him that i love him or do i move on?
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Not sure what I really want when it comes to my love life.
Posted Wednesday February 1 2012, 5:34 pm
18/f
Well, when it comes to my love life I am not sure what to do. One of my best friends is in the army, he kissed me on New Years eve and is leaving from basic training and will be back the day before Valentines day. I like him a lot, but part of me feels like I am too young to be in a relationship. I like him in a way I could see me never being with some one else. But I don't want that so young. I've been in a few relationships and all ended badly, I don't want to lose my best friend, but I am afraid if I wait too long I will not have thee opportunity again.
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My ex wont take me back
Posted Wednesday February 1 2012, 3:09 pm
I still like my ex.. i've told him and he wont take me back what should i do?
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Love interest wasn't over his ex... do you think he is ready to move on yet?
Posted Wednesday February 1 2012, 11:06 am
Ok so I really liked this guy he was really nice and I told him I liked him. He said that he wasn't over his ex who broke his heart. So he said he thought I was beautiful to one of my friends and I danced with him at homecoming and when the lights came on we kept dancing untill the song ended. Yet when he saw me with my male friend he got a sad look on his face and hasn't talked to me since.
So I am wondering if he likes me now. I still love him and even when I was texting a guy friend all I could think of was him. Please advise
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boyfriend trouble: My boyfriend hit me by accident, and now he won't forgive himself!
Posted Tuesday January 31 2012, 11:34 pm
Well, I've been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and over this past weekend, he and i got into a fight over something stupid, and he started hitting himself,(he does that from time to time because he gets frustrated) and i tried stopping him because i hate seeing him hurt, but in the commotion he accidentally hit me, and now i have a bruise on my arm. He was so shaken up that night, he threatened to kill himself because he hates abusive guys. and he wouldn't talk to me for an hour no matter how hard i pleaded. it's been a few days and he's still saying i deserve better, even though it was just an accident and i know he won't do it again, he still states that he did it, therefore not fit to be my boyfriend. he and i both know it was an acci...
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its about can you get pregnant by fingring your self to much
Posted Tuesday January 31 2012, 7:00 pm
well my boyfreind he is kinda older than me and i just turned 15 and he already wants to get me pregnant and im like babe im to young for that and i dont know if he gets it so i really need help plzzzz help me
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Guy's sudden shyness - wait out or ignore?
Posted Tuesday January 31 2012, 4:45 pm
Second semester college freshman girl.
Ive been good friends with this guy since the first week of college. He's reserved but fairly outgoing and confident in himself. I developed feelings for him in November. I got good vibes from him right before break. Our homes are too far away from each other for us to have hung out over winter break, but we kept up casual conversation. We've been back at school for over two weeks and hanging out more than usual... he's been tossing around the word "date" since the weekend.
You'd think the hard part is over, but it suddenly got so much more difficult. It's like he lost half his age and I developed cooties overnight. Ever since this weekend when we talked un...
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Hooked up with my best friend
Posted Tuesday January 31 2012, 4:23 pm
So me and this guy have been best friends for like ever. It's an extremely complicated relationship. Long story short, we've never wanted to date but we've always been extremely physically attracted to each other. We hooked up for the first time ever last night. It was so random. Literally, we were honestly just bored and did it. He told me he didn't want to tell anyone. And I agree, people shouldn't know but I wanted to tell my girl best friend. He said "no, please, I would be extremely upset if you told her. I don't want anyone to know because I don't want people to look at our relationship differently or start treating us differently. I don't want things to change." and I agree. I don't want things to change. So I told him okay...
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am i not fit for commitment?
Posted Tuesday January 31 2012, 2:27 pm
Hi everyone, i've been single since the beginning of November. Me and the guy only dated for 2 months. besides that i was single for exactly one year. (btw i am 16 years old) i really want a boyfriend, and i have many opportunities to get one. i dont hook up with guys randomly, and my bestfriend john and i are really considering dating. But, i have a tendency to get bored fast and find the smallest dumbest things to be a big turn off. I get bored in relationships very easily and very quickly. I'm not a sexaholic at all. ive only have sex twice. but i always have my mind wrapped around the idea that i am ready to date and once the opportunity comes around i chicken out. i dont understand why. even with the last guy i dated i got bored fast a...
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Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday January 31 2012, 12:06 am
14/f
Hi, I've been dating a guy for approximately a month and a half, going on two months. He is really nice and sweet, but I feel like I might want to break up with him- but at the same time I don't. Here's the thing- he is incredibly socially awkward, to the point that it sometimes becomes excruciatingly embarrassing and uncomfortable when in group situations. He also dressed very poorly, and wears the dorkiest jeans ever (it's honestly like he doesn't even see the other guys in the school) and, I recently found out, was regarded as a dork at his old school. I am a freshman in high school, and he came from a different feeder school than myself, so I didn't know him until this year. It's just embarrassing me now, because so many peo...
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