Question Posted Wednesday February 1 2012, 8:45 pm
I liked this guy and he liked me too, he told me, but he has a girlfriend and they are really close. He told me he just wants to be friends, but he rarely ever talks to me. Then I tried to move on and this other guy i started talking to said he liked me and i also liked him, but he also has a gf and acts like he doesnt want anything to do with me. Can anyone help me understand why this keeps happening?
Additional info, added Friday February 3 2012, 8:07 pm: I pretty sure they are telling the truth when they say they like me and they've said more than once, the first guy was hesitant because he didn't quite wanna believe it himself or ruin our chances of a friendship. These guys are DEFINITELY NOT the stereotypical guy who just wants to get in girls pants. They are the intelligent kind who think deeply about things.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kittenlover2000 answered Saturday February 4 2012, 9:39 am: Perhaps go somewhere else for advice, because you'll find noone on here knows anything about you and so it's unfair to critise them for this when they were just trying to give free advice which took a while to construct.
Apologies if you don't like what you read but if you can't accept soemone else's opinion then may I suggest this site is not for you. Why ask for advice in the first place, and waste caring peoples time to throw it in their faces.
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mannequin24 answered Wednesday February 1 2012, 11:55 pm: It's best to stay away from guys with girlfriends. Although, if he says he just wants to be friends, then respect that and just be friends. As long as he has a girlfriend, don't count on anything more (unless of course, he's cheating on her, which gives an even bigger reason to stay away). Sometimes guys feel tempted and get tired of the same old same old with their gfs and start talking to other girls. If they tell you that they like, it is a warning sign to stay away and not get involved. It's not your fault and it happens to tons of girls so try not to let it bother you. If you are wanting a guy friend, try to find a guy who doesn't have a gf (chances are it complicate things less). I hope this helped :) [ mannequin24's advice column | Ask mannequin24 A Question ]
babymoby answered Wednesday February 1 2012, 11:42 pm: When a guy says he likes you he means it mist of the time so only you will know the real reason why but maybe it's because they just said it. First, how did they say it? Did it look like they meaned it? Find out those then I can help you [ babymoby's advice column | Ask babymoby A Question ]
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