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am i not fit for commitment?
Hi everyone, i've been single since the beginning of November. Me and the guy only dated for 2 months. besides that i was single for exactly one year. (btw i am 16 years old) i really want a boyfriend, and i have many opportunities to get one. i dont hook up with guys randomly, and my bestfriend john and i are really considering dating. But, i have a tendency to get bored fast and find the smallest dumbest things to be a big turn off. I get bored in relationships very easily and very quickly. I'm not a sexaholic at all. ive only have sex twice. but i always have my mind wrapped around the idea that i am ready to date and once the opportunity comes around i chicken out. i dont understand why. even with the last guy i dated i got bored fast and broke up with him before i really hurt him. i dont know if im just not the person that is to be commited. i used to have boyfriend after boyfriend after boyfriend, than about a year ago me and this guy had a thing. everyone thought we were dating, we pretty much were but it just was never official. and than this guy steve got jealous of him and tottally wrecked mine and the guys friendship/relationship. and i was totally crushed my it, i was completely upset because the guy started to hate me because of steve. i knew in the beginning thats why i couldnt settle back down or anything but im not sure if thats still the reason. but it deffinitly could be...another thing is when i decide i like a guy i constantly think of them, than i guess my brain can only take so much of that same person that i also get sick of them. but if anyone can help me find an answer to why i lose interest so fast, and how i can stop myself from losing interest please help! and if you can tell whether or not i'm fit for commitment or not? thankyou so much!!
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Until my husband and I met, I hadn't had a relationship longer than 3 months. I would get bored and move on, even if there wasn't anything really wrong with the relationship. I've realized since that it was just my mind's way of telling me that this wasn't the right person.
You need someone who can keep you engaged and interested for the long haul if you're going to last the distance. Being married means brushing your teeth next to the same person for 50+ years. It's not about that first flutter of romance. It's what's left over after that flutter that really matters.
You may find that nobody fits the bill right now. You have lots of time to look around. Never settle for less than what you want until you find the person who makes putting up with the little things worth it!
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