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its about can you get pregnant by fingring your self to much
well my boyfreind he is kinda older than me and i just turned 15 and he already wants to get me pregnant and im like babe im to young for that and i dont know if he gets it so i really need help plzzzz help me
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you cannot get pregnant from fingering. the only way to get pregnant is if the penis ejaculates inside the vagina. honestly if you think you are ready to have sex at 15 that is your choise nobody elses. if you think you are ready then go for it. but don't let him pressure you into doing it if your not ready. but if you're thinking of having a child you need to think of the consequences.. do you have enough money to pay for said child.. will you be ok with missing out on your high school career.. will your parents be okay with you bringing a child in so young.. will your boyfriend stay around after the baby comes.. do you have a babysetter while your at school. things like that. there is alot to think about before bringing a child into this world. and maybe this is your boyfriends way of saying "i want to spend my life with you" so he tries to talk about having a baby in the future.
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Yes you are too young. You aren't ready physically or mentally to have a child. So you need to tell your boyfriend that. Also, keep in mind that you are below the age of consent to have sex therefore it could get you and your bf (especially if he is older than you) in quite a bit of trouble. You have to tell him no. If he still insists after you say no, then you need to break up with him. Nobody should pressure you into doing something illegal and something that you don't want to do.
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Do you work a full a time job? Do you live on your own independently? Do you pay your own bills?
If these are all a no, You are not ready for a child. You are FIFTEEN years old!, You are way to young to bare a child. A child deserves a lovely home that is STABLE where the mother can properly provide for the child.
Children require medical attention, diapers, food, toys, formula, crib, car seat, etc.
It is EXPENSIVE to raise a child, At 15 you are not able to care for the child on your own and properly the way it deserves. Use your head! This guy is trying to influence you. If he is pressing you into baring a child at your age then please please please please dump him and move on. The biggest mistake you can possibly make at your age is having a child you are NOT ready for.
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Tell him your not ready for it! Say No! Because he can't force you to do a thing. If h gets mad then he's not even the best boyfriend after all. Make the good choce :) Good for yu for telling him.
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