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Is it considered cheating?


Posted Saturday April 14 2012, 4:10 pm

Is it considered cheating when you're in a relationship with someone & your boyfriend goes off and lets his bestfriend when they're hanging out (they're like brothers; so close) & he let's him make his dick hard & they mess around & give each other handjobs & blowjobs. & his bestfriend has a girlfriend too; just doesn't get to see her. They used to do this all this stuff before they both got girlfriends.

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Why do people act like it's so easy to tell a guy that you *like* him?


Posted Saturday April 14 2012, 11:29 am

it's the scariest thing. i am so afraid of rejection! even when it seems like i have a chance with a guy, sometimes i'll even kind of sabotage things cause i don't want someone else to hurt me. i just wait for the guy to make an obvious move, but that has never happened. but then again, maybe that's why i've never had a boyfriend, despite not being physically unattractive, at age 18

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What does it mean when a guy tries to make a girl laugh a lot?


Posted Saturday April 14 2012, 1:30 am

it's like he's always trying to make me smile or laugh, by joking around or just acting silly in general around me. we have the same sense of humor so i usually respond this way, or if he makes some random noise or something I'll be like "what?" and just giggle. he does a lot of random things like that and he doesn't say why. i'm confused!

i've never seen him act this extroverted towards anyone else before. sometimes he teases me over nothing, too. we sit next to each other in class and often when it's quiet i feel like there's this awkward tension between us, but idk if it's just me, since i have a huge crush on him. but we've never addressed our feelings towards each other. i don't know him that well. we're both t...

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about a nickname


Posted Friday April 13 2012, 11:22 pm

if zach is my boyfriend then what is a good nickname for him

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Getting "Down There" looking good


Posted Friday April 13 2012, 7:20 pm

I don't plan to lose my virginity in a long time but I've been dating this guy for a long time and i've never let him get anywhere below the jeans. He's voiced about how he's wanted to finger me many times but I don't know if he'll like what he sees? I mean people have sex all the time so do guys care that hair just grows down there? Or does it hav to be shaved/waxed, completely hairless? Girls please help me out! Or what condition it was in when it happened the first time.

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Boyfriend puts up with all my crap but why am I unhappy sometimes?


Posted Friday April 13 2012, 5:05 pm

21 female

My boyfriend is 18. We've been together for 8 months now. He loves me unconditionally & would literally do anything for me. He reminds me every day how much he loves me and how I mean the world to him. I love him too but why am I always so moody and crabby when I'm with him then?? We see each other about 3/4 times a week. When I'm not with him though, I miss him. I literally miss him right when he leaves me. But then sometimes when we're together it's like I get irritated with him when he's not even doing anything wrong!

I've told him before that maybe my feelings are changing or that our love is fizzling and that broke his heart and he broke down. I couldn't even look at him it broke my heart s...

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He's a bit clingy..


Posted Friday April 13 2012, 4:16 pm

Ok so 13/f and my boyfriend is 14. At my school, we have 2 recesses and he usually hangs out with me at both of them. He's going to high school next year so I understand why he wants to spend so much time with me as he can but my friends dont really get along with him and I havent hung out with my friends for a long time. I asked my boyfriend if I can spend time with my friends and he said "Yea sure we can hang out with them for a recess" and I seriously banged my head against the wall. Like what do I do?

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how to get over him


Posted Friday April 13 2012, 4:01 pm

me and him have been together for a month.but i have like him for 6 months..we text everyday till one day he decided to ask me out. the day he asked me out he helped me in a problem i had (crascar)and hewasso nice, he got out of work and he came to where i was in a taxi i was so happy to see him. after that i introducedhim to my parents as my bf it was the first time i had done that. we were soo happy together but recently wegot in an argument. now hes diferent wedont talk :'( and today was our 1month together and he didnt even remember.all he said was awwww <3 when i texted him telling him that it was 1 month with him..he didnt even call nothing :'( he didnt evencame to visit me. the problem is that i know he doesnt love me anymore. he ...

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Fiancé calls me a whore


Posted Thursday April 12 2012, 11:32 pm

Over a year ago, I had just gotten out of an abusive relationship, had a miscarriage (in which my ex told me he was happy that my baby had gone to hell), was struggling with bulimis, and my father figure died of a really painful cancer. I was in the military, away from everyone I knew and had only one friend who knew all of this. I felt ugly, worthless, and insecure. This friend told me the only way a man would love me was if I got more "sexual experience" (I had only ever slept with my ex.) I idiotically followed this advice and slept with four rather random people. This friend who had given me said advice grew to be my best friend, then my boy friend, and now is my fiancé. He constantly calls me a whore for those four times, an...

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Wat my question is really saying is why I love him.


Posted Thursday April 12 2012, 12:36 pm

Y do boys always have the attention on asking me out or asking me to be with him??...

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Temporary Dating: Sex or no sex?


Posted Thursday April 12 2012, 4:16 am

17/f

I recently met a guy in my area from a dating website. We exchanged numbers, talked pretty consistently for about a week and finally decided to meet up under the agreement that if we weren't attracted to each other, we'd go on our merry ways. However, things turned out very differently than how I initially expected. After an entire evening of talking, we ended up hooking up (no sex; only making out and petting) in the back of his car. So as of now, we're dating.

The catch is that he's graduating school soon and will only be around for three months, and considering both of our busy schedules, we wont really have the opportunity to spend very much time together. He's 23, which most people would consider a s...

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LDR - Questioning if I should end it.


Posted Thursday April 12 2012, 3:21 am

I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year now with my best friend. We met online and just a few months ago met face to face for the first time. I am 19 and female. He is 18 and male.
Sine the beginning of the relastionship I have questioned if I really want to be together. I've told him before that I question it and have been close a few times to breaking up. I love him, but as just a friend or a love interesting I am unsure. I dislike hurting him, and feel I do so no matter what choice I choose to do; break up or stay together and keep question it. Which is why I seek advice and get another point of view.

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fiance suddly doesnt want kids and needs a break


Posted Wednesday April 11 2012, 10:07 pm

Gotta problem with my ex. Got in a huge fight. I was NOT an angle, but neither was she. She wants a break. She only hangs out with other guys. She just renewed a lease on our appartment with me, still has sex with me then makes sure she spends as much time as she can away from me. What the hell is going on? Im 30 and she's 24 and has always been totally devoted

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This dude will not leave me alone.


Posted Wednesday April 11 2012, 10:07 pm

There is this dude I dated for 2 days. The I broke up with him. Ever since then he has been really close to me. He gives me a lot of hugs. He hangs around me a lot. He is always around me. He also wrote me a poem. In the poem he calls me his girl and talks about getti g back together. I really dont want too. He also ask my friends about how I feel or what I think about things before and after he does them. It is really starting to get annoying and irratating. How do I let him dow without hurting his feelings. He is a good friend and I dont want to break his heart or hurt his feelings.

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is he playing me or not


Posted Wednesday April 11 2012, 6:50 pm

he dumped me then kept texting,year after the breakup he text..think bout u all the time,I'm not happy,wish I was with u...so I waited it out then I text and then he told me 2 let it go..he sent a random text bout nothing..we started to talk then I asked if he was going to leave his gf and he said no...wtf?did he mean any of the previous things he said?how can he b so hot then cold?

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Do I try harder or take my losses?


Posted Wednesday April 11 2012, 3:50 am

21/F
I've been dating this guy off and on for the last 5 years. I'm in college and he's already got a job in the city so were in different towns at the moment, I had my birthday last weekend and he was suppose to come visit but things happened and I told him to postpone his coming for a day because I was extremely exhausted from studying for a major exam. All I wanted to do was go home and go to sleep, well he didn't take it so well since I've cancelled on him for our past few visits because something always comes up. I honestly didn't think he would take it that badly but he did and ended up being quite mean about it, therefore, the next day I told him I rather him not come cause of the night before. Again he was mad and started cal...

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Like... what are the signs that a guy likes you??


Posted Wednesday April 11 2012, 12:14 am

~ Female
~ 15
******Mostly Guys Answer Please*******

This might sound weird but.. I'm just curious 'bout this that's all. I just don't want to sound really childish in this question. So, I guess what my question is that how can u tell if a guy likes you?? Like what are the signs that a guy likes you??
Hopefully I don't seem childish by these questions--I'm just curious!!
<Danyel>

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he wants to marry me butim unsure he really wants to


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 11:03 pm

I'm 22 female my boyfriend adked me to marry him we've only been together 5 months and he's in tje air force he's away at basic now in his first letter he asked me to marry him iim just afraid he is only doing it cuz he thinks he should I've had a rough past and he wants to take me aeay from it all I really love him and do wanna marry him but for the right reasons

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boyfriend is confused.


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 7:43 pm

21/F
boyfriend 21
we both attend the same college


My boyfriend and I are in a rough patch I guess you would say. We are not fighting, but things are not the greatest. He says he is confused and doesn't know who he really is or what he wants. He says he knows he hasn't been the best person lately and he is really and truly sorry for that. He says he is sorry for putting me through sh*t and putting me through pain. He's just not sure what he wants. He says it's him and it's not me and he's really sorry and he wants me to know that. He says he feels like sh*t for making me feel this way. He says he really needs to figure out who he is and what he wants. He said to me "don't worry alright, I just need t...

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Does he think he owns me?


Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 7:27 pm

I'm kind of with this guy right now we aren't officially dating but we are an "item" I guess and we recently have taken our relationship a bit further and at times I get the sense that he thinks he owns me or something. For example he is doing this rap battle thing at the mall soon and he doesn't want me to go and he said its because he thinks I'm too innocent and that it's not a place I should be (we are pretty opposite he's from "the hood" as he says and I'm just a "goodie two shoes") and I don't mind if he doesn't want me there but I told him "so you don't want me to come and see? Because I'm pretty sure I can handle it" and he said "no you can't I won't let you" well I understand if he d...

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