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fiance suddly doesnt want kids and needs a break
Gotta problem with my ex. Got in a huge fight. I was NOT an angle, but neither was she. She wants a break. She only hangs out with other guys. She just renewed a lease on our appartment with me, still has sex with me then makes sure she spends as much time as she can away from me. What the hell is going on? Im 30 and she's 24 and has always been totally devoted
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You really need to speak to her. For the sake of the relationship.
If she wants a break, that's fine. But explain how you feel. You need to tell her that she is sending you mixed signals. If you accept that she needs a break and you agree, go through the practicalities with her. I.e. The living situation, how this affects whether you will see other people etc etc.
Be sure to tell her however that she needs to make a decision about what she wants to do. You both cannot be in a dead end relationship that isn't going anywhere, with the burden of a lease.
Also ask what she needs a break from. This may sound harsh, but maybe she needs a break from you? Maybe you're doing something she doesn't like. But do explain that she needs to tell you this to prevent it from building.
But in short, you really need to sit down with her when you are both free (so there is no excuse of having to meet someone, or having to make dinner or whatever), and talk it out. This may not seem like the most comfortable, or un-awkward thing to do, but it is literally the only way to solve this issue.
Good Luck, and I hope I helped :)
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