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This dude will not leave me alone.
There is this dude I dated for 2 days. The I broke up with him. Ever since then he has been really close to me. He gives me a lot of hugs. He hangs around me a lot. He is always around me. He also wrote me a poem. In the poem he calls me his girl and talks about getti g back together. I really dont want too. He also ask my friends about how I feel or what I think about things before and after he does them. It is really starting to get annoying and irratating. How do I let him dow without hurting his feelings. He is a good friend and I dont want to break his heart or hurt his feelings.
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Why not just sit the guy down and explain to him you are uncomfortable with this stuff?
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There is only one real, effective way to solve this problem. Its quick, simple, and easy to explain, so forgive the shortness of my answer.
All you have to do is speak to him. Tell him how you feel, and how it would be best if he would re-examine his own actions. Tell him calmly, and respectfully. Make sure you do it alone though, you don't want to embarrass him.
So in short, just explain how it makes you feel i.e. uncomfortable, and explain that you don't like him in that way anymore, but you still really enjoy his company as a friend.
Hope I helped :)
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