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LDR - Questioning if I should end it.
I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year now with my best friend. We met online and just a few months ago met face to face for the first time. I am 19 and female. He is 18 and male.
Sine the beginning of the relastionship I have questioned if I really want to be together. I've told him before that I question it and have been close a few times to breaking up. I love him, but as just a friend or a love interesting I am unsure. I dislike hurting him, and feel I do so no matter what choice I choose to do; break up or stay together and keep question it. Which is why I seek advice and get another point of view.
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If you aren't happy with the relationship and you keeping questioning it, then you should probably end it. You shouldn't be with someone who you aren't sure of. You'll just keep questioning it and it won't be good for either of you. You're young and have a lot going for you, don't be tied down when you're unsure if this is what you want.
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Hello.
Someone will be hurt, whatever your decision. But keep in mind that you are very young. The pain will last for a tiny fraction in the grand scheme of things.
Is it worse that he is hurt for a few weeks (maximum), or that you are hurt from all this confusion for the rest of the relationship? It sounds selfish, but you need to break up with him as soon as possible to ensure that you do not lead him on, and to ensure that no-one is seriously hurt before it gets too deep into the relationship.
Good luck :)
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