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girlfriend troubles Posted Monday October 18 2004, 8:39 am
my gf and i have been together for nearly 2 and a half years, she cheated on me with a guy from her school and lied to my face about her flirting and teasing and getting with him when i knew what was going on,
she would not tell me the truth till i forced her to by providing evidence that i knew she had. i logged a few of her chats to find out the truth and she was slagging me off to him and flirting with him still after she promised me nothing was going on, i love her more than anything, but trust is something a relationship needs otherwise u have nothing.. what should i do? Thanks
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Posted Monday October 18 2004, 1:51 am
here goes. i met this boy over summer and we became best friends since we couldnt date since i had a boy. when me and my boy broke up i ended up leaving and going back to my hometown. the guy i met from summer(his names kevin) called me a few times and mentioned a girl once and he said she liked him and they might go out. the thing is i really like him alot but before i left i couldnt even kiss him when he wanted me to because i didnt want to fall in love with him. i came back last night and i went out with him tonight. he said he had a g/f and then the next thing i know he was talking about spending the night when my moms gone and having some fun and he said he only told me he had a girl to make me jealous. i really like him alot but i don...
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CONFUSED Posted Monday October 18 2004, 1:07 am
i was with this guy for 3 months and then we broke up because he said he couldnt just be with one person and then 3 days later i lose my virginity to him then we went back out for another month and then we broke up again this time i did cuz he was acting like a jerk. but ever since he had been saying how he still verry much liked me and would write me letters and what not and then like recently he got verrrrry mad at me but b4 he asked me to HOMECOMMING and i already got my dress. and now that he is mad at me he was talking to some other girl who is like 2 yrs younger then him to go. oh and he reason why he is mad was cuz i told him about this party and didnt show and all the ppl there made fun of him and his crew of like 10 people and then...
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Posted Monday October 18 2004, 12:11 am
ok well this is kind of wierd/hard to explain i guess. my ADOPTED sister got married the first of this month. we adopted her when she was about 23 or 24. odd I know, its a very long story lol. anyways yea she got married the first of this month and the guy has 3 kids and one of them is a boy. hes my age and i like him alot, i have no clue why but i do. she knows and the rest of the kids know and so does my so called " step brother in law " so yea so yea i have no clue what to do. I know he would never like me but i swear i cant get him off my mind. But i mean I would feel so freaking wierd dating my " sisters " step son! Hes not really friendly ya know. Lol, he doesnt talk to me at all. And hes in trouble alot, he sneaks...
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Hey... Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 11:48 pm
Hey there's this sophmore girl that I like... she's going to be 17 in Jan... (I'm a 14 yr. old freshman male) well anyways we've hung out and stuff, and with our other friend, but yeah I guess I kind of like her... and my friend was speaking to her and then I said what and then she's like oh... well I would probably like you if you we're older than me... and I was like oh... ok and I was kind of sad... I mean she just like told me this out of the blue haha... but anyways, my question is how can I get her to like me more??
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I couldnt believe what was in his hand Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 11:41 pm
A friend of mine and i went to the movies the other night, and as were pulling up, i see the guy i like standing next to a car down the lot. I was getting all excited when he stood up, and then i saw what he was holding, and i was repulsed. In one hand, he was holding a lit joint, and in the other, a half empty bottle of vodka. I had no idea he did these things!! And i have my values..i try not to associate with ppl who do harm to themselves in such ways. Even though his lifestyle goes against my beliefs, i cant seem to get over my feelings for him. I just dont how to do it. How do i 4get this guy?
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how do i find a bf??? Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 10:34 pm
okay, ive been single since august. i hate being single, i like having someone who cares about me, someone that loves me back, but i cant find a bf..how does someone find a bf??? where do i look? how does it start? ugghhhhh...i need adivce plz..
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older guy? Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 10:25 pm
I met this guy that my friend j and her fiance r wanted me to met. so i was ok it couldn't hurt so i ended meeting him september 19th. He's 21 and i'm 17. so we all ended up going bowling. I talked i him a little bit.
that next week we all went to roger's house to watch movies. J and i ended up getting there by 7pm and we did our homework until 8-8:30pm. We finally started watching movies at about 8:30-9pm. We watched star wars. John(the guy i met) started explaining the movie(s) of star wars since i had never seen any of them before. Which was very sweet of him to do? anyway i didn't get home until almost midnight. This time i got to actually talk to john more and flirt with him cuz i was much more comfortable with him. Do u think ...
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Guys. Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 9:55 pm
Guys or Girls can answer this: How can you tell if a guy likes you? There's a guy that flirts with me, but I can't tell if he likes me or not. Please help!!! I'm so confused!
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i need help Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 9:21 pm
Ok see i have this friend and we have known each other since we were little. For the last two years he has liked me and i dont know if i like him i tryed to go out with him once but i dont know i felt weird, so i broke up with him and never told anyone i went out with him. But see if he is going out with someone else i suddenly get jelgous and want to be his gurlfriend but when he isnt going out i dont really like him as much. It just really confusses me please i need someone to help me
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my problem Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 7:35 pm
Okay for one i think your a really good advice columnist and keep up the good work! My name is pinklemonadestand and i have a question for you...
My ex boyfriend and i broke up because him and i had nothing in common and so i broke up with him after going out for eight months! I am with my new boyfriend right now and i like him ALOT! Well two days ago i was at my ex boyfriend's house (his name is Sean and my boyfriend's name is Billy) well i was with Sean and we were talking well then he grab me and we kissed and then 10 minutes later we were still kissing. I don't know if i should tell Billy about this or not! I don't want to lost him but then again i think i still like my ex. What i do?
-Katie-
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Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 7:26 pm
I'm 15 and female and I've never kissed a guy. I go to an all-girls Catholic high school, and I haven't kept up with ANY of my very few guy friends from when I went to co-ed schools.
*reads question, cringes at own stupidity*
So . . . how can I meet new people? I have a lot of really great friends, but it would be nice to meet some new people, and possibly get a boyfriend.
Any ideas?
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wheres the right answer? Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 6:46 pm
hey i just found out that my ex boyfriend has a new gf. they've been going out for a few weeks now i guess. no one told me until the other day. everyone knows how much he meant to me and ever since he dumped me ive been feeling sad. i dont know if i want him back anymore b/c he lied to me and told me we could go out again in second marking period and that he just wanted to be single and thats it for awile. i know that him and this girl wont last long. all of my friends have totally different advice on what to do in this situation. what do i do? please anyone who has any advice IM me anytime on miZZcHeRRyCoKe36 ~13 fm tepy~ thanx so much!
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starving for attention from my husband Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 5:25 pm
I am 47 been married 2 1/2 years and for the first time I have never been so much in love, just recently about 6 months ago it seems like I have to beg for attention from my husband not sexual attention even though that department is not like it used to be but I want the hugging, cuddling, holding hands, kissing just to be close. I just do not what to do anymore, I am tired of trying and crying and the funny thing is 7 months ago I weighed 200 lbs and decided I was going to lose it on my own so I got really motivated and lost 60 lbs. I went from a size 18 to a 6 and I thought things between us both in the bedroom and out would change, I was wrong I jst need some good sound advice. Thank you taking the time to read my question. Bonnie
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Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 4:39 pm
what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them?
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Should I, or shouldn't I? Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 4:12 pm
13/f Sorry if this is a little confusing!
My friend goes to a differnt school than me. She introduced this kid to me (hes 12) and now I'm beginning to liek him. I know he likes me too, because my friend asked him and he said yes, and he also told me. Like, it would work out great with us, except for one thing, my friend. She used to go out with him and he dumped her a little while ago. But she still likes him..a LOT. He knows that she likes him, but he doesnt like her. The girl that introduced us (that I have been talkign about the whole time, that likes him also) is mad at him for liking me, and mad at me for liking him. She really doesn't want me to like him, but it's hard NOT to..you know what I mean?? Well it's really ...
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Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 3:46 pm
ok well theres this guy i have been liking for a while, lets call him b*. well he started talking to me like 3 weeks ago and we've been cool ever since. he's been giving me hugs, saying hi to me around school n stuff. he's always asking me for gum lol cause im the "gum lady." he seems to be a real sweetheart. well this last week, we were partners in class and he was like touching all up on me and he told me he likes me n stuff. he was asking me all these questions and just being very "friendly." he asked me if i like him and i said yes, and he seemed very happy about that. he gave me his number and told me to call him, so i did and it didn't seem like he wanted to talk to me. and now around school he doesn't give me hugs...
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Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 3:20 pm
My boyfriend has been in Juvie for a few weeks, and i don't know how to communicate with him. I can't call him or visit him, i can write letters and stuff, but i can't send roses or anything. Will he dump me when he gets out for lack of communication?
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again Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 3:01 pm
Okay...I'm the girl who went out w/ Bobby. I fogot to say that I told him i don't like him anymore...my friend told him too (w/ out me knowing) but she said he stil thinks i like him!!!! ahhh!
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Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 1:42 pm
i need help. i relly like this girl but i dont know if she likes me too but i rely want to let her know i like her without telling her. what should i do?
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