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Hey there's this sophmore girl that I like... she's going to be 17 in Jan... (I'm a 14 yr. old freshman male) well anyways we've hung out and stuff, and with our other friend, but yeah I guess I kind of like her... and my friend was speaking to her and then I said what and then she's like oh... well I would probably like you if you we're older than me... and I was like oh... ok and I was kind of sad... I mean she just like told me this out of the blue haha... but anyways, my question is how can I get her to like me more??
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To be absolutely honest, there's a lot of difference between the maturity of a 14 year old and a 16 year old. This girl probably doesn't want to date somebody who's much younger and presumably less mature than her. You can either accept that and move on, or try and show her that, although you are young, you aren't immature. One assumes that this girl finds you sufficiently mature to be on the same level as her as a friend, so perhaps you don't have to convince her of all that much to convince her you could be boyfriend material. Don't attempt to act like you are much older than you are, but just try to be chilled and generally on top of things and hopefully she'll see the older guy inside of you. Good luck!
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she is obviously lame and a wast of time if she isnt open with age..its not like you are grosly younger then her...that was kinda harsh but so is life
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Get over her! I don't think there's a chance for you and her to hook up so just look for someone your age. Someone you can talk to and hang out with and be comfortable with. and you know that she likes you back as well b/c shes ur age!
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hey well there nothing i can blame for that! But maybe you should flirt with her more i know its a gurlz thing but mayb itd work with you! buy her drinks and stuff hug her n stuff like that! well hope it helped ya!
XOXO $hereen
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