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ok well this is kind of wierd/hard to explain i guess. my ADOPTED sister got married the first of this month. we adopted her when she was about 23 or 24. odd I know, its a very long story lol. anyways yea she got married the first of this month and the guy has 3 kids and one of them is a boy. hes my age and i like him alot, i have no clue why but i do. she knows and the rest of the kids know and so does my so called " step brother in law " so yea so yea i have no clue what to do. I know he would never like me but i swear i cant get him off my mind. But i mean I would feel so freaking wierd dating my " sisters " step son! Hes not really friendly ya know. Lol, he doesnt talk to me at all. And hes in trouble alot, he sneaks out of the house and stuff. I cant talk to him because im so shy. I turn red when someone says something about him. But like I dont mean hes mean like " Get away from me " or anything. But around me and stuff he isnt talkative. So yea do you guys know what I should do? I dont get to see him often because hes harldy ever home. But like I dont think I could talk to him. So any ideas?? Thanks, If you need more explaination tell me. Also I hardly know him. Lol
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It generally isn't a good idea to get involved with a family relative (even if it's a distant or non-blood relation) simply because its going to stir up a lot of weirdness and things would be very uncomfortable between you if you ever broke up badly and then had to continue to get along in a family setting.
Set up some boundaries. Get to know him a bit as a friend, but don't push it too far or this could re-awake your crush. Hopefully in a short amount of time things will naturally calm down and you'll just see him for what he is - a nice enough guy, I'm sure, but not somebody you should be involved with. Good luck!
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If you feel weird about dating him, then just be friends. If you go to the same school, you could call him and be like "Did you get your report card?" or ask him what classes he has...but when you do get to see him, talk to him! Just think, you'll be friends with the guy your like, in love with! haha good luck!
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