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Question Posted Sunday October 17 2004, 3:46 pm

ok well theres this guy i have been liking for a while, lets call him b*. well he started talking to me like 3 weeks ago and we've been cool ever since. he's been giving me hugs, saying hi to me around school n stuff. he's always asking me for gum lol cause im the "gum lady." he seems to be a real sweetheart. well this last week, we were partners in class and he was like touching all up on me and he told me he likes me n stuff. he was asking me all these questions and just being very "friendly." he asked me if i like him and i said yes, and he seemed very happy about that. he gave me his number and told me to call him, so i did and it didn't seem like he wanted to talk to me. and now around school he doesn't give me hugs anymore.. when i talk to him it seems like he doesn't care or whatever. i went to the homecoming football game and i talked to him and he just like didn't listen to anything i said and he was a real jerk to the guy friend that i brought. do you think he still likes me, and why might he be acting all weird?

thanks
xoxo


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Additional info, added Sunday October 17 2004, 6:33 pm:
yes he does seem playerish. i was told that he was acting like that with some gurls that he met at the homecoming game. so i dont get it???

why would be all of a sudden be shy around me when he was definetly not shy last week. he was again like i said, "very friendly.." but now he seems hesitant to give me hugs. and when i talk to him he doesn't make eye contact. ... should i call him and ask him wtf is up or ask him tomorrow at school???
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--Nikki-- answered Sunday October 17 2004, 6:05 pm:
It seems like he still likes ya...Hes just a lil shy...N its obvious he has feelings for ya if he was bein a jerk to the guy ya took to the game...He prolly wanted to be that guy...Just try to keep talkin to him...He'll come around eventually...Good luck

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_fLyAwAYy_ answered Sunday October 17 2004, 5:49 pm:
well, guys say that girls are emotional. but the truth is that a lot of guys have weird mood swings that they think they're too tuff to show. (no offense dudes!!) well, it seems that this guy does like u if he said dat he lyked u, but maybe he has pressure from friends or he's shy cuz he duzn't no how 2 act around u anymor now dat ur mor than just "friends". tlk 2 him and ask him wut his deal iz...that shud give u sum mor answers. read his eyes to tell u if he's lying about thins or not...it works!

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RaZzLeDaZzLe2011 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 4:45 pm:
he could be going through hormones or maybe something is going on at home. i think that you should talk to him about it and find out what is wrong. i think that he was a jerk to your guy friend because maybe he thinks that you like ur guy friend as more than a friend and he got jealous...? if he says nothing is wrong, and that he'll change then give him a week or so and if he is still jerky then maybe you should talk to him again about it and A)give him another chance or two or B)break up with him. consider your options and let me know how it goes! hope i helped!
~Jen

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Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday October 17 2004, 4:44 pm:
wanna know what i think? Hes a jerk. Any guy that wouldnt give a reasonable explanation for why they dont want to talk to you anymore ore are just plain mad at you is a coward and can't express their feelings. Maybe hes playerish. If he likes you he neesd to come to you, and even still he better do a hell of a lot of apologizing after putting you through that for no apparent reason. I dont think guys like that are even worth going out with b/c they'll shatter your heart again and again. Don't be sorry, he's not even worth it in the first place. I wouldnt even try asking him why hes being the way he is, believe me ive met a lot of guys and lots of them do this. It's a name tag for "im a jerk".

gl xoxo

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