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i need help
Ok see i have this friend and we have known each other since we were little. For the last two years he has liked me and i dont know if i like him i tryed to go out with him once but i dont know i felt weird, so i broke up with him and never told anyone i went out with him. But see if he is going out with someone else i suddenly get jelgous and want to be his gurlfriend but when he isnt going out i dont really like him as much. It just really confusses me please i need someone to help me
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It's purely territorial. You aren't attracted to him, but you notice magnetism as soon as he is attached to someone else.
I suppose you have grown too accustomed to how he has been attentive towards you, therefore you've developed this territorial feeling.
It does happen between close friends, so don't worry.
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i have had this happen to me many times i liked sum 1 then we went out and i didnt like him and i got mad when he went out w/ sum 1 else all i say is try to forget about him and if you really do like him and get jealous i say you shuld try and give him one more chance i mean he duz deserve it if he likes you again! good luck thanx
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maybe your just being territorial and you dont want another girl to take your place and ur just thinking that you like him when he is with other girls. or maybe you really do like him but you just dont relize it when yall are together. i would say that yall should just stay friends because if you really like someone then you would deffinatly know it but this is something that your heart has to decide for you.
good luck hope i helped!!
~toni
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I think you're only jealous because you think that his girlfriends could take him away from you. Obviously you care very much for him. You may also get scared that she may break his heart, and you do not want his heart broken. So don't worry, I think that you're only jelous because you want him to pay as much attention to you as he did before his girlfriend. I don't think that you actually want to be his girlfriend. Well, hope I helped.
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it seems like your just too good of friends and your scared his girlfriend at that time will take him away from you and he wont be friends with you no more....and or you dont want him to get hurt by another girl ...maybe thats good..that you care about yalls friendship that much!
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i think that your just jealous(not in a mean way!) that your closest friend is finding other people that he is interested in..dont worry most people feel this way! :)
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hi, well i totally understand you...what happens is that you care for him...and you like him as a person and as a friend a lot...you like his friendship and also his attention towards you...you dont like it when he goes out with someone else...b/c even though u dont relly like him as a b/f you want his attnetion b/c you like it..its ok...and its normal b/c it has happend to me b4...no worrys you'll get use to it wit time...or when u go out wit someone else you wont care no more ;)...or there's a posibility that you might like him without knowing...which i dont relly think so b/c ur ssayin when he is not going out wit anyone u dont feel the same way...so its prolly what i was talkin bout erlier...no worrys ;) it will b ight ;) xoxo effy
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