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girlfriend troubles
my gf and i have been together for nearly 2 and a half years, she cheated on me with a guy from her school and lied to my face about her flirting and teasing and getting with him when i knew what was going on,
she would not tell me the truth till i forced her to by providing evidence that i knew she had. i logged a few of her chats to find out the truth and she was slagging me off to him and flirting with him still after she promised me nothing was going on, i love her more than anything, but trust is something a relationship needs otherwise u have nothing.. what should i do? Thanks
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I really think that this girl is a loser. You should move on and get over her. Find some nice, honest chics to hang out with!! And maybe you could start a new loyal relationship.
-Hope I helped-
[Emily]
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Your girlfriend doesn't understand the concept of 'committment' and 'relationships'.
I doubt she will ever earn your trust again considering the fact that not only did she lie about it, but she continued with the charade. It's immature and not at all like 'love'.
It's time to regain your confidence and leave her because trust can't be earned with someone who lies profusely.
If she was at least up-front about her idiocy, I would tell you two to discuss it like adults, but she is emotionally immature and definitely not ready for a committment.
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omg what a bitch! i understand that you love her a lot so it going to be hard, over time you'll get over her. try talking to her, but since its happened before, i doubt itll change. thats just the way she is. she thinks since she got away witn it once, shell do it again because you didnt really do anything the first time. she's taking advantage... talk to your girl or ditch her skanky ass! hope i helped
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If you really love her and aren't ready to give up on the relationship, I think you should talk to her about going to counseling. It sounds like you both have very different views of your relationship. Your problems won't fix themselves, but with outside help you may be able to recover from this and have a healthy relationship together.
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WeLL..sHe obviOusly doezn`t like yOu as much aS YoU like her ((nO OffenSe)) yOu shOuld really talk to yOur qirl and make sure she qeTsz the impressiOn that yOu knOw what`z qOinq oN..make her chOoze..iT`z yOu..oR him. TrusT is the mainkey ina relatiOnship-anD iT`z hard tO believe the badstuff when they teLL yOu exactLy what you waNna hear..weLL gOoD luck!! -Tiffany!
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hey first of all i would beat the shit out off that other guy!!! fo real..wut your girl did was fucked up!! but really..yea i would confront it face to face..and then take all her shit and throw it out..make her feel like the lying, lowdown, cheating girl that she is...then dont talk to her...make her come back to you..if she really cared she wouldnt have done it in the first place...also she would ask for fogivness, and if you choose to accept her apologie..thentake her back..then take her back..if not then show her that you deserve better and just forget about her ass....man i feel fo you and that was really fucked up fo real..well thats all i got for you..sry bout your girl..peace out!
--PinoyBoi
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this is a hard one as you have been together for so long. but to be honest she lied to you, cheated on you, talked about you then lied again, the odds arnt looking too good. do you still feel as though you could trust her? for example if hse went away on a holiday or on a night out would you be constantly worrying she was cheating on you? she may love you too but she has alot of growing up to do and needs to realise the true quality of trust which is what a relationship needs to work. ask your self these things. but also remember that once a cheater, usually, always a cheater. hope this helps! :)
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Ditch the Bitch!
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