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Okay for one i think your a really good advice columnist and keep up the good work! My name is pinklemonadestand and i have a question for you...
My ex boyfriend and i broke up because him and i had nothing in common and so i broke up with him after going out for eight months! I am with my new boyfriend right now and i like him ALOT! Well two days ago i was at my ex boyfriend's house (his name is Sean and my boyfriend's name is Billy) well i was with Sean and we were talking well then he grab me and we kissed and then 10 minutes later we were still kissing. I don't know if i should tell Billy about this or not! I don't want to lost him but then again i think i still like my ex. What i do?
-Katie-
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Thank you very much, first of all. :) I really appreciate it, because I do try my best.
As far as your question, it is 100% natural to still feel connected to an ex-boyfriend. Especially since you guys were dating for so long. Don't feel too bad that you might still like him.
It isn't so great, though that you let yourself kiss him for 10 minutes. I always think it's best to be 100% honest in a relationship. Would you rather Billy find about it from your or potentially from someone else who may exaggerate?
First step is to talk to Sean. Tell him that you've moved on and you don't think it's right that he advance on you that way. Tell him you still want to be friends, though. If you think you still like him, continuing a friendship will give you guys a chance to sort of get to know each other again and, if the occasion were to arise, maybe get back together.
Now, if this kiss was a one time thing, and Sean initiated the whole thing, hopefully Billy would understand. If you think he won't, you could maybe get away with not telling him, but I'd definitely do my best to remain totally loyal to him.
I hope I helped at least clear it up a little.
♥ Lorelei
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