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leaving for college want to get on the pill (answers fast plz!)
Posted Friday August 29 2008, 11:21 am
Okay so heres the deal.
Im f/18 virgin and im leaving for college this sunday. Anyhow it just dawned on me that i should probly get on the pill before i leave seeing as things could happen.
*i know i dont have to go to the gyno to get the pill and i know you should.
*i know that your family doctor can give it to you.
*****BUT can you go to a walk in clinic to get the pill????*****
I would rather go see my family doctor but hes on holidays for the next 2 weeks. And i want is as soon as possible caus my school is out of town and making doctor app is gonna be hard.
THANK YOU!
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Depression
Posted Friday August 29 2008, 5:26 am
I was diagnosed with chronic depression a few years ago. My doctor and I tried quite a few different treatments, including medication and counseling, but it didn't help and the medication made me more suicidal than I already was.
So, I went off the meds and I was able to keep it under my own control for the past year, until recently.
I haven't been able to do much lately because I have felt so tired, I feel like everything is going wrong, and that there isn't anything here for me, but I know in my heart and my head that this isn't true.
I feel as though I am losing my mind over this and I can't seem to remember the little things, like conversations that I had with my bf just a few minutes before.
Or I'll remember...
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dumb mistake
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 8:10 pm
okay so i made a dumb mistake long story short
i had sex today and my boyfriend didnt use a condom.. i know we should have and i have had pregnancy scares lately where i think im pregnant because i end up missing my period but i guess my cycle just changed a bit bit now its back on track..
i use this online thing to track my period and it says like ovulation day and such this website
http://www.mymonthlycycles.com/
and it says that today i was fertile... and i had sex without a condom ah.. and im only 16 and i know it was a mistake so im not looking for a lecture i just want peoples opinions of if they think i have a high or low chance of getting pregnant.. i mean .. he pulled out and jizzed so.. i don't think any got in me..
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rape
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 7:17 pm
I recently became aware that I might've been raped. I don't remember much from the night but there is a possibility. While that scares me a lot, but after I found that out, I've become a lot more sexual, and for lack of a better word horny. =/
And this is the kicker, what turns me on the most are like fantasies about being raped and things like that.
Is this completely crazy? How can I go back to the way I was before all this happened? I mean, I know that I can't but at least stop thinking about this stuff. Also, is there a way to tell if you were raped or not? I've had sex since then, so I don't know. I mean, it upsets me but sometimes I think I'd rather not know...
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Penis too big for a Vaginia?
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 5:41 pm
Is it possible a penis could be too large to fit inside a vaginia?
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Buying a "toy"
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 4:52 pm
Okay so I'm 14 and a want a vibrator.
I picked out the one that I want and I have a bunch of those gift credit cards so i can buy it descretly. They ship it in a plain brown box with an unidentifiable label. What I'm worried about is if one of my parents find it, what do I say? I mean, I doubt my dad will find it because he's nearly never home, and my mom gets home later in the day, so I'll probably be getting the package. But seriously, WHAT IF SHE FINDS IT? what do i say? should i ask her about it beforehand, I mean I really really don't want to. But how would I even ask something about that? Don't tell me that I'm too young or anything, it's better than me finding the nearest manwhore eh?
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lost.. & scared ill never find somone.
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 2:52 am
hay.. ok so im 17 and im still a virgin. i broke up with my bf last year after goin out with him for a couple of monthes cos he wanted to have sex and i wasnt ready and cos my friends didnt like him.
but now i think im ready and i really want to have sex but i want it to be the right time and right person. i think about gettin back with my x so we can do it but i now it wouldnt work.
im scared that ill never find someone and that ill be alone for the rest of my life. i think iv just lost hope. wat do i do?
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Is eating out common?
Posted Thursday August 28 2008, 2:01 am
Usually on pornos the guy eats the girl out before having sex as foreplay, but do a lot of people actually do this or is it just for the movie?
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Problem?
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 6:32 pm
I missed my period, so at first i thought i was pregnant, but i took a pregnacy test last night. The result was negative. Are there other reasons that i could have missed my period? Or was the test just wrong?
I've looked up early signs of preganancy, and the only symptom i have, is not getting my period, so i really have no idea.
anything advice would be great.
thanks.
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after the storm comes the calm
Posted Wednesday August 27 2008, 12:46 am
17 f..
usually whenever i was with a bf.. making out would make me extremely excited.. making me real lubricated.. and i found this a big problem.. it started fading and now its to the point where we makeout and im still not lubricated but yes excited.. whats the deal? any tips on how TO take it to the lubrication point? thanks in advance!
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Faster please
Posted Tuesday August 26 2008, 11:57 pm
Okay, this is sort of awkward, but here goes.
My boyfriend and I have been having sex for a while now and he used to go pretty fast and hard and I loved it. Lately though, he tends to go slower and deeper, which is also great to an extent, but I prefer it when along with that he finishes off going faster and harder. But, I'm too shy to flat out say it to him.
So, my question is how can a subtly get him to start doing it faster like he used to, without flat out saying it?
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Making out
Posted Tuesday August 26 2008, 10:08 pm
i need to know how to make out
like the steps or whatever!!
Please
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testes
Posted Tuesday August 26 2008, 8:07 pm
i have had sex i am 18 female and i would like to know how can you take a std/hiv test. i want it to be confidental and id like it if it was free actually. so if you can give me any ideas thatd be wonderful thank you!
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sex soon!
Posted Tuesday August 26 2008, 3:46 pm
So I'm about to have sex with my boyfriend who is 16. We have been dating for about a year. I am a f/15. We love eachother very much and I'm excited/nervous to do it; but, I am also very self conscious. I mean, I have hair in places, and pimples or white dots on my nipples? What do I do, they won't go away? Plus, I'm not even sure what to do when we are about to do it or attempting. HELP PLEASE.
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Things gone bad.
Posted Tuesday August 26 2008, 3:54 am
I'm a 18 year old Female.
I think i may be pregnant, and i really do not want to raise/give birth to a child. There is no abortion clinics around the area i live in, and i have no ways of getting to a close one(the closest one is 4 hours away). Me and my boyfriend are really not expecting a child, we both how alot of our life ahead of us. So getting to my question, since theres no way i can get to an abortion clinic, are there other ways that i can "abort the child", or "cause a miscarriage"? I'm too scared to confront my parents about this, and don't really know if it's possible i can make an appointment with my family doctor without my parents finding out.
Any answers are appreciated, and i know, i should...
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......
Posted Monday August 25 2008, 10:21 pm
how can i like....play with myself....
im a girl...and this like like super embrassing...lol
please and thank you.
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so theres this really pretty girl
Posted Monday August 25 2008, 8:49 pm
there is this really pretty girl in my grade and i am so jelous of her.
i dont know why though. and she really pisses me off. i dont know how to get her off my mind.
not in a lesbian way just im really jelaous and its not healthy
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how do u kno???
Posted Monday August 25 2008, 7:08 pm
ok so to this day i am "the vigin mary" as my friends say. I have never even kissed a guy before and i am 14! PROBLEM: I am one of the most developed girls at school and a ton of guys only date me to get in my pants. But I am not willing to just give it up because I want it to be the perfect moment for me. Its monumental!! So how do I know exactly when its the right time or if its the right guy?
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Trapped in hell
Posted Monday August 25 2008, 4:32 pm
My life is, to me, a living hell right now.
Backstory will be neccesary. Ive lived with my girlfriend for over a year. I love her, and we've tried to make it work through alot of trauma.
But I'm sick of it. I am sick of her. I want to leave her, and I can't.
By can't I mean functionally can't. My credit is shit, partly because of my parents back blading me and forcing me to pay debts incurred under the promise of them paying them off and then refusing too later. Partly because I ruined what little I had left spending money on her, helping her out, I even paid for a semester of her school.
I have only a few good friends in my life and while most of them WOULD help me, none of th...
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Birth Control
Posted Monday August 25 2008, 1:59 am
I really need to get on birth control. is there somewhere i can buy it just like over the counter? or do i have to go to the gynecologist? i am scared to go to gyno because i definitely don't want to be checked out. if i go to a local health clinic would they have to tell my parents? i'm 18 but i'm still under their insurance.
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