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My ex boyfriend's friend asked me out!


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 5:50 pm

I went out with this guy for about 2 months. He was really shy and It didn't feel like we were even dating. So I dumped him. Now it has been a little less than a month since we broke up and one of his good friends just called me and asked me out! So I don't know him that well; he's ok looking but not what I go for and also he is nice and I don't want to make him feel bad so I told him I'll tell him tomorrow. So anyway, even though I want a boyfriend, I don't want him but I'm afraid that if I go out with someone else later on and say no to him he'll feel crappy! Usually when I don't want 2 go out with a guy who asks me out I just keep saying I'll tell you tomorrow and then finally say yes or no after about 5 days of torture! But now I'm in m...

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can't get over it


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 5:36 pm

okay, me and my bf, well, i guess he's my ex now, broke up a couple of days ago. it was really hard for me because we both love eachother so much, and we still do. we were even planning to get married and stuff. well, since we broke up, i haven't been able to stop thinking about him and how wrong this feels. i know that we are soulmates, but i don't know what's happening right now. i just want him back, and he has said that he's willing to consider it, but he needs a bit of time to collect himself. without him i just feel so empty inside and like us being apart is WRONG. i've had boyfriends before and i've never felt like this when i broke up with them. i'm an emotional wreck, and i don't know what to do, please help me, i really want to ge...

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i don't know what to do anymore


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:56 pm

Ok. The guy i like likes me too. But the thing is he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend or anything! we were talkin and i asked him why he hadn't and then he's all like "what you wanna go see a movie?" GOD! WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM!?!?! HELP PLEASE!

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BREAKUP!


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:15 pm

Well theres this boi and he dumped me and its*s REALLLLLLY bothering me and I dont know how to deal with it! HELP ME!!

=/ --anyomus--

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what should i do???


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:12 pm

I was in Intenseive Care in the hospital for about 2 weeks because of something serious. One of my closest guy friends visited me at LEAST once a day, not that I minded or anything. But then, one of my last days in the hospital, he asked me out. Just then, the nurse walked in, and said that I porbibly wasn't thinking straight because of the IV. Well, I don't no if he really likes me, or is afraid that if something like that (me being in the hospital) happeneds again, he might lose me. I'm afraid that if i go out with him, that I'll only be doing it because I would feel guilty if I didn't. But, I don't no if he really likes me or not. What should I do? *Thanks*

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Ahh.. x boyfriend


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 4:04 pm

I still have major feelings for my ex boyfriend.. he was my first love/ and first person. But we broke up and now he's going out with his girl who's really close with him ( i hate her ). He told me that he wanted to stop talking to me. (but you kinda have to know him to realise what he accualy means, its so confusing, but he says that stuff and doesnt mean it.. he just says that -pretty sure). So i havent talked to him in like 5 days and OMG i really want to so bad, but im not. So my question is- is this the right thing with not talking to him?.. maybe he will miss me or realise some things.. is it for the best? what do i do.. thanks so much..

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im confused about my feelings for someone


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 3:14 pm

ok so theres a close friend of mine lets call him Jake. Well jake and I are good friends and he gave me a Christmas card for Christmas that signed "Love Jake" well ever since then my friend lets call her sasha has been trying to hook us up. he says he wrote love tom on all cards..yet anyone i know hes friends with didnt even get a card at least any ive checked with. so he coems up to me today and goes "have you talked to sasha" and i said not really he goes "she said you and i should go out" just then the bell rang so i didnt have to say anything. i really am unsure of my feelings for this guy.....if he does ask me out what do i do? i cant say no i have problems of hurting friends feelings!!!

HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Ex Boyfriend...


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 2:33 pm

OK my boyfriend just dumped me yesterday and eh used the line, "I love you, but i don't want a girlfriend right now." Has anyone gotten that one before? If any boys see this what does it actually mean? is it just a nice way to dump me becuase how can you *love* someone but not wanan go out with them?

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this Friday....


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 2:09 pm

this friday I am goin to sleep over my friends house and she has her bf sleeping over too. I dont have a bf and their probably gonna make out and other stuff. I'll probably be WICKED bored! Should i invite someone for me or just be bored?

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Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 2:02 pm

ok ive been asking questions about my boyfriend...like me not thinking he cared about me and stuff well yesterday i passed out and couldnt breathe and i think it scared him and i think he relized how much he loves now that it happend to me...he is constantly telling me how much he loves me and how much he needs me...
do you think that becasue of what happend hes relizing how muhc he loves and cares about me???
thanks a bunch!
XxXxAbabiiXxXx

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this guy....


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 12:10 pm

okay theres this guy i like and he likes me.. this saturday night... we're supposed to do "something". i no what it is because we talked about it. Well... to get me out of the house.. he's gonna say that we're going out to eat then to the movies. I think we still might go to the movies. im not sure yet. But then all weekend we're hanging out. I just have to let him know what time i have to work.
Well this morning.. he asked me if i was seriously ready for it.. i told him i am. i just keeep getting nervous when we talk about it. Like yesterday... my older sister rode with us.. i knew he wanted to talk bout it becuase i saw the look on his face.. so i made her ride the bus today.. and we did talk bout it. Mostly the whole w...

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Help is what I could really get!!!!


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:31 am

Hi I'm Phx'sgurl sorry it sounds weird but I need help,there's a guy that I like but I have a boyfriend ,he's nice but I really have feelings for the other guy he's about my age.The other guy on the side has really been there for me and this guy can connect with me alot but I don't know what to do Please give me advice I could really use it and if you can tell me your column name so I could update you later to tell you how it went.My friends told me that the other guys really cute and he's nice but the other guy looks like he really likes me .-Phx'sgurl

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bf


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 7:27 am

wow i rlly need a bf..im 14/f and everyone around me is taken..what do guys my age look for in a girl?? is anyone single??

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I don't understand


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 3:49 am

Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on?

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Don't know what to do


Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 3:40 am

Okay this is a long story so here it goes. A few months ago, I recently developed feelings for one of my guy friends. One night, it was revealed to him. At first I couldn't believe he knew, but now I regret the whole thing. After I told him I liked him, things looked like they were going pretty good. Me and him began flirting more than usual and he would say things that made me believe we had a possible future together. The only problem with him is, he tends to flirt with a lot of girls which surprisingly I'm okay with but several weeks have gone by and he hasn't asked me out and now I just want to forget about him. Plus I don't think he's completely over his ex-girlfriend and friends of mine have been telling me who he's been flirting wit...

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Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 11:22 pm

ive never kissed anyone before, or been kissed. i want to kiss my boyfriend, but im not sure if id be bad at it or what. when should i? how can i make it so its not just really random and awkward? how? what do i do? im so confused! thanks all! 14/f it that matters at all

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lOveing ??


Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 10:47 pm

i think im in love with my boyfriend...becasue i dont know....everytime i see him,..its just tha weird feeling inside ...an i think i love him.......im not afraid to love its just am i realli feeling the love an passion between us or is that im scared to be around him !! need help

PLEASE

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all problems come from men.. *rolls eyes*


Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 10:39 pm

I have this friend that I have been there with all the time. I wanted to ask him out but I don't think I've ever had a chance, been nothing but a friend and someone to free load hw off of... So, he asked one of my best friend out.. It was really wierd because, I was happy for him and her.. and everything, but I was angry and cursing myself for not taking a chance because I could just ask him after they broke up. She made some excuse that she was too busy to go out with him and he was completely crushed. So I left him alone with this, because well.. I'm his friend and I wouldn't want to just aggravate things further. Now there is some girl that is a cheerleader going after him.. She always has short flings with guys and is very capable of ha...

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Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 10:20 pm

ok, i like this guy that ive known forever, ppl say he likes me back and i sometimes think it is true. he often flirts with me, in front of all my friends does this mean he likes me or he is being a normal guy or a little of both thanx!!!

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guy off limits???


Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 10:06 pm

ok so i like this guy john and he likes me too and he hasn't told anyone and nobody knows that i like him because my friend alexia still likes him after a long, big relationship with him. and thats just bad. she asked me if i like him because i always flirt with him and i said no. i was lying though. i really want to tell him that i like him but i am afraid that if i do the word will get out and alexia well lets just say she will turn a lot of people against me. how should i act around john? should i tell him? should i tell her? any advice????

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