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im confused about my feelings for someone
ok so theres a close friend of mine lets call him Jake. Well jake and I are good friends and he gave me a Christmas card for Christmas that signed "Love Jake" well ever since then my friend lets call her sasha has been trying to hook us up. he says he wrote love tom on all cards..yet anyone i know hes friends with didnt even get a card at least any ive checked with. so he coems up to me today and goes "have you talked to sasha" and i said not really he goes "she said you and i should go out" just then the bell rang so i didnt have to say anything. i really am unsure of my feelings for this guy.....if he does ask me out what do i do? i cant say no i have problems of hurting friends feelings!!!
HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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well..here is what i think. with the whole card thing..he could have just been being nice by putting love, and just not thought about it..or he could have put it with just your card cuz he liked you..idk ur age so i don't know how guys would act at certain ages. Well..anyway..if you like him then certaintly say yes! If you don't...then you really nneed to tell him honestly that you'd prefer to be friend and that you think it would hurt the friendship if you guys went out. But, you don't have to worry about him asking you unless it seems like he will soon..Hope this helps :)
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It sounds really sweet, trying never hurts, but only if your not in love with someone else or something.
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You do what your heart tells you to!!!!!!!.... its sinple (even tho i understand its hard, i know where your coming from) - but you need to go with what your heart tells you to. If you like him .. then yea sure maybe try it out... but if your not sure, then i wouldnt... you should hangout with him more or talk more about it, and see if its comfortable with you. If you do say yes to him when you dont think you like him, then that will be worse when you want to break up with him because he will be more hurt. Think of your inner feelings and gooluck, hope i helped :D
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tell him that you dont feel that way for him, but you guys can def still be good friends, its better to be honest with him, and being honest is the best way NOT to hurt friends feelings. so dont worry about that, just be honest =) xox
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Tell him you're unsure of your feelings; therefore, you don't want to date him right now. When it all comes down to it, you either: a) date him. or
b) hurt his feelings.
If you're looking for some magic way to turn him down and have him not be affected, that's not possible.
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