Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 5:36 pm
okay, me and my bf, well, i guess he's my ex now, broke up a couple of days ago. it was really hard for me because we both love eachother so much, and we still do. we were even planning to get married and stuff. well, since we broke up, i haven't been able to stop thinking about him and how wrong this feels. i know that we are soulmates, but i don't know what's happening right now. i just want him back, and he has said that he's willing to consider it, but he needs a bit of time to collect himself. without him i just feel so empty inside and like us being apart is WRONG. i've had boyfriends before and i've never felt like this when i broke up with them. i'm an emotional wreck, and i don't know what to do, please help me, i really want to get back together with him, and he says he does too, but he needs a bit of time. i have things i need to do, but i can't do them because i can't focus on anything but the loml(love of my life). anyone that can help me please answer this!! thanks.
signed:
hopelessly devoted 2 him
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Pain_Is_Love_101004 answered Thursday January 13 2005, 9:06 am: I am in the same sitation you are in. My ex bf an I broke up 3 months ago and we are madly in love with eachother but he had to move back in may of 2004 and we got back together in july and dated for a few months but I ended up breaking up with him and IDK why. You should just give it time, you you both really love eachother then you will be get back together. Remember the heart always finds it's way back to whomever it really belongs. Just have faith, thats what I tell myself. I kno how it is when you think about him every minute of everyday bc thats how it is with me. I dont talk to my ex bf bc it is too hard but I got to talk to him a few weeks and ago and he cried to me and he kept on telling me that he loves me. I promise you that it will work out if it is meant to be. I wish the best of luck for you both. Please rate me!
l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 10:59 pm: I'm sorry, hun, but when you really liked someone and you break up with them, it's gonna hurt. Technically, just think of it as a break. You're not TOTALLY broken up, you're just getting some time away. This might not be the best advice, but it's what I do - throw yourself into work or anything you do, spend lots of time with your friends, try not to be alone very often b/c thats gonna be when you're the saddest. You're going to have to learn how to get along without a guy in your life, though. But I'm really sorry about the breakup, and I hope you guys get back together. [ l0stiNth0uGht020's advice column | Ask l0stiNth0uGht020 A Question ]
GoTyOuRbAcK answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 8:00 pm: UNBELIEVABLE! i am going through the EXACT same problem except he doesn't want to get back together and he has had 2 girlfriends since...Brittany and Sydney i am sorry that i can't seem to answer this because it is like my problem as well. But if you find a solution, please tell me!
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