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guy off limits???
ok so i like this guy john and he likes me too and he hasn't told anyone and nobody knows that i like him because my friend alexia still likes him after a long, big relationship with him. and thats just bad. she asked me if i like him because i always flirt with him and i said no. i was lying though. i really want to tell him that i like him but i am afraid that if i do the word will get out and alexia well lets just say she will turn a lot of people against me. how should i act around john? should i tell him? should i tell her? any advice????
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if she is your friend she will understand. you can't control who you like and who you don't like and she will just have to accept that. and if she does turn people against you who cares?! just let john know how you feel and don't hold back feelings cause your afraid of rejection or because of your friend. because you will regret it if you never told john how much you liked him! GO FOR IT! good luck!
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I would tell your friend you like him. The other option would be to tell him you like him but you dont want word getting out if you guys hook up. Thats bad because having a relationship in sexret is no fun..plus it will come back to your friend which will get messy. So talk to her when you have time for a nice long talk. Tell her you like him but you werent going to make a move or anything until you talked to her first. See her reaction and if shes ok with it..then go for him. But if shes not..i would back off. Its not worth it. However, just because she went out with hhim doesnt mean you guys cant hang out right? So maybe hang out with him as friends and maybe sometime in the future you can go for him. Thats just my opinion..i hope i helped
-meliss
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