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My ex boyfriend's friend asked me out!
I went out with this guy for about 2 months. He was really shy and It didn't feel like we were even dating. So I dumped him. Now it has been a little less than a month since we broke up and one of his good friends just called me and asked me out! So I don't know him that well; he's ok looking but not what I go for and also he is nice and I don't want to make him feel bad so I told him I'll tell him tomorrow. So anyway, even though I want a boyfriend, I don't want him but I'm afraid that if I go out with someone else later on and say no to him he'll feel crappy! Usually when I don't want 2 go out with a guy who asks me out I just keep saying I'll tell you tomorrow and then finally say yes or no after about 5 days of torture! But now I'm in middle school and I know better than to lead them on! What do I do? Oh and not that I care what people think, but people always know who's dating and this kid isn't much of cool he is kind of weird and even though he hangs with popular kids he doesn't seem so popular...people will talk! So anyway sorry this is so long and thanks for reading this. Today is January 12 and I need advice before tomorrow if possible so please try to hurry! Thanks. I will rate you a 5!
I am 14 years old and a female of course!
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Ok i understand that you dont want to make the kid feel crappy, but when you lead boys on for 5days dont you think it will make them feel crappy anyway? I am glad you dont care what people think but i dont think you like this boy so tell him how you feel he will understand.
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hun just tell him you would rather be friends and get to know him better.. that way he wont feel like shit and you dont have to worry about it. And i am sorry but who cares what other people think. Trust me yeah they will talk a little but thats just because they are immature...
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