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For my boyfriend, about his stubborn, hating family.


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:43 pm

I'm 21f, my boyfriend (James) is 23m, his brother (Andrew) is almost 22, and they live with their parents. James and I have been together for about four years, and love each other very much.

But his family hates me, and we're starting to fight because I think he could fight them more on this, and he thinks he can't. He has no job and not much money, so he can't move out.

According to him, his parents think I'm not good enough for him. That makes sense, they want the best for him. They have good intentions. But they periodically tell him that he's hurting the family by seeing me, and that's just not true.
He said, "The only way they'll stop is if I break up with you, and I really don't want to."...

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thanks


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:41 pm

i just graduated and have to write a million thanks yous...any ideas for a little short standard thank you paragraph?????

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Writing and acoustic song


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:41 pm

i know how people say write a song about the things you know or feel the most. at the moment im lonley and feeling unloved. the tune iv composed for acoustic guitar its a sweet and sort of shortish song but i would love the sweetness to be contrasted with lyricall emotion. any help please? first verse lyric sentance? your stories? anything.

thanks

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i I feel lonley and pathetic somtimes. today is that somtime


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:37 pm

I find my self asking questions on this site about anything and everything that im feeling just to know that some body out there cares and wants to help. i havent had a girlfriend in 5 years'ish, and the only girls in my life that i have ever wanted to love all have boy friends now. feeling like iv been left behind... maybe im too closed off to people, i used to get bullied as a kid a bit but then i grew up and actually became quite normall with a bunch of a friends and the peopel that used to bully me i have forgivven (kids do stupid stuff and i try not to dwell on the bad things) they have all grown up too now and are quite decent people really when it comes down to it. (not all of them grew up though..) anyway's i guess because of that i...

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fighting with stepfather on stupid things


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:26 pm

hello, im a 19/f college student. my stepfather haven't seen eye to eye much lately. i ended up not doing so well in my first semester of freshman year and it made my stepdad disappointed. however, now he's accusing me of failing to spite my mother! my mother ended up arguing before i left for college, but does that make sense that i would deliberately ruin my gpa just to get back at my mother? i couldn't believe it when he said that to me. he's a very stubborn person so i was wondering how i could argue with him civilly and try and state my case. thanks in advance!

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the guy i like likes my best friend.


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:14 pm

basically, a few months ago, i started seeing a guy, who i really, really like. he said all this stuff to me, like how he really liked me, how amazing he thought i was ;/. i went away for a little while, before i went he promised me he would still like me when i came back, funnily enough, i came back and he was going out with somone eles. i buried it and pretended not to care, but felt horrible inside. it had been a while and i hadn't seen him properly, but whenever we spoke on msn, he would either flirt or act really off. a few days ago, i was drunk, and told him i still liked him on msn, he said he didnt know if he liked me like that, but we decided to meet up, even though he was still going out with that girl but he said he was really co...

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Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:05 pm

when you poke your armpit, is it supposed to hurt? bc it always does for like there are hard lumps there.

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oops


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 1:57 pm

i said fuck you to my boyfriend.....i didnt mean to it just kind of slipped and now he wont speak to me...i need a way to apologize so that he really knows im sorry..help!

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so confused =/


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 12:07 pm

hi guyz

im really confused w/ this guy. we are both 16. basically i told him i liked him and he told me he liked me too (more than friends we made that clear) we have kissed and i have known him for a couple of months now.

&&basically i sent him a text and he just didnt reply. and hasnt yet. i wont text him again b/c he obv doesnt want to speak to me, but why would he do this? his friend says he does this to people sometimes but why would he do it to me if he likes me?

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Posted Monday June 1 2009, 12:06 pm

do people who used to smoke pot and stopped still have the same "stoner attitude" as before? like being passive/lazy-ish

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Sex drive


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 12:05 pm

Okay, my boyfriend and I used to have sex at least twice a week, only taking a week break when my monthly friend came to visit. My sex drive is as good as ever but now he's never in the mood. It's been about a month and I've done just about everything I can from subtle hints to flat out grabbing his junk.
He recently got a new job but he doesn't work that much more than he did before. But our relationship is just as strong as it's ever been, just not in the sexual field.
So I'm curious if anyone has any idea what could be causing his sudden decrease in sex drive and what I could do to try and increase it?

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Iron


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 11:28 am

16/f So recently i had surgery, and before it i had to get my blood drawn. Well they told me that i was anemic or something and i asked what that was and she told me that i was really low on iron. I was wondering what foods have iron in them. I usually eat healthy foods and i like to be healthy so this kinda bothered me. Any ideas on how to get it up would be appreciated. Thanks =]

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seeking advice


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 11:27 am

Okay Try to bare with me. I am seeking advice for my Great Aunt...

Okay Remeber I told you about My couisn Brandon that pass away? whoes My aunt Patty Son? well okay thing is Brandon did had a daougher was 15 when he die. before he die. she had a fight with bradon (Her dad) Saying she hate him and stuff. and when he was dying he try to call her and she never calls back.. ok after brandon pass away she never came too the funeral or send fallowers or card you know too her grandma.. whoe my Great Aunt.. okay then like that time My aunt try too call or send a letter about her dad. and tori who is her half sister that was maybe 3 or 4 wrote her letter. never hear or hard from.. okay now pass 7 year now.. This week My Great ...

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will i ever get a boyfriend


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 8:01 am

hey i have minnior acne and i am 13 and im so afraid that i am never gonna get a boyfriend and i want my first kiss and i keeo reading thease first kiss stories and listening to thease love songs WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

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menopause


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 6:05 am

i was wondering, can boys make babies all their lives or do they go through a thing like menopause?

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Confident Songs


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 4:46 am

Yeah, I'm working on a playlist of confident songs? Such as shutup and drive by rihanna and 'like this' by kelly rowland. i'm not focused on the genre, but those are the only two i have haha. thanks (:

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What am i supposed to do to get over my ex?


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:22 am

I honestly dont know how to move on, cause i still dream about her and i cant stop thinking about her, what am i supposed to do?

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nail fillings?


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:05 am

so i got gel tips about 3 weeks ago for prom, now that graduation is around the corner i want to get them filled and i have a lot of expenses so i'm trying to spend as little as possible. i want to know exactly how much i'll be spending before i go to the salon.
i want to get my nails filled but i don't know the difference between pink and white fillings and pink fillings. please help!

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My boyfriends' friend hate's me?


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 2:06 am


So my boyfriend is about three years older than me.

And through the time we've been dating I've met about all of his friends,
And now I can easily say they're my friends too.

But one of them doesn't seem to like me too much.
He believe that because I'm so much younger than him,
That I'm annoying.

When in reality, I'm not.
He tells me that I purposely try to be 'cute'.
Reallu, I don't think I am.
I guess I'm just viewed that way.

So, anywayy,
I was on the phone with my boyfriend a few minutes ago,
And he's with all his buddies,
And I overhear his friend
Call me an annoying little bitch.
While he's...

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piercing against parent wishes?


Posted Monday June 1 2009, 1:55 am

15/f.

Alright, so I've asked both of my parents numerous times about piercings. My mother is more considerate, but when talked about with my father the question brings up termoil and anger, and usually ends in some type of yelling. I've been heavily thinking about getting my nose, and/or belly button pierced, against my fathers wishes. If I do, does anyone know a good way to hide the fact I have them?

(Our family has a boat, and we go out on it frequently, so please don't suggest that I wear a shirt to cover my naval around him)

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