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Sex drive
Okay, my boyfriend and I used to have sex at least twice a week, only taking a week break when my monthly friend came to visit. My sex drive is as good as ever but now he's never in the mood. It's been about a month and I've done just about everything I can from subtle hints to flat out grabbing his junk.
He recently got a new job but he doesn't work that much more than he did before. But our relationship is just as strong as it's ever been, just not in the sexual field.
So I'm curious if anyone has any idea what could be causing his sudden decrease in sex drive and what I could do to try and increase it?
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ASK HIM.
There is probably no magic trick, no mix of underwear or sexy phrases that is going to change the situation. You are going to have to ask him, straight up and firmly.
He's not a moron I'm sure. He knows that the sex habits have changed, and surely he's noticed you rather they hadn't. So you aren't telling him anything he doesn't already know. You are asking him to think about WHY and maybe even what can be done about it.
It's a serious chat, and anything we do online is just navel-gazing guess work. You MUST speak to him.
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