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What's it like to do that kind of stuff?
Please don't put comments like your too young, your not ready for this, etc.
This guy I like wants me to go to his house friday. He are both in highschool, and I know he wouldn't do anything bad. I trust him.
Anyways, I'm going to his house, and he wants to eat me out, finger me, and teach me how to make out. He said he would be very casual about it.
So I was like okay. And he wants me to give him a hand job and a blow job, I said no the the bj though. He said that he would take this very seriously and not talk dirty and stuff, and guide my hand where it should go.
Anywayss, now that you have the background info, what's it like doing all this?
I know its different for everyone, and whateverr, but I wanna know what its like for you.
How do you sit? How does he sit? What do I do during? What does he do during? Where does his jiz go XD.
Haha. Uhmm, I had another 1question, but I forgot it. Oh well.
Please answer fast!
15/f & he is 16/m
We're dating.
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STOP. THINK FIRST. Ask yourself do I really want to do this? Then ask will I regret doing it with him or in general later? How long have you been dating? I'm assuming this isn't a new relationship. I hope not.
I've got a problem with the word casual and you should too. If he wants to be casual like it's no big deal and seems to be pressuring even lightly DON'T. Someone who loves you wouldn't be so flippant about sexual practices and just dump the idea into your lap and expect a fast yes or no and consent.
All of this stuff oral sex etc. you mention above is a big deal. Do it only with the right partner. Who is to say he hasn't used other girls and did this with them and moved on?
Tell him, I want to try that stuff eventually but not now. If he loves you he'll wait until you really want to. Don't do it to keep him happy etc.
If you have more questions than answers about any of these practices you mentioned, positioning and how to you aren't ready yet. If you have any fear or lingering doubts than forget about it until you have fully thought about it, researched more and feel confident. This shows us you're not ready for some of the things he's trying to get you to do. Just tell him no.
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Thats quite a broad range of questions, but I'll try to answer you in the order you asked them and as many as I can;
Question 1: what's it like doing all this? When he eats you out its most likely going to feel really good, kinda like eating a hot fudge sunday and knowing that instead of gaining weight you'll lose it. It'll be very wet and sensetive as well. Fingering will feel almost the same but be easier for him to stimulate you so theres a better chance you'll enjoy it more (unless he's well experienced). When making out keep your mouth untensed and he should too, this'll make his lips and yours feel like pillows. As per the hand job it'll feel very hard but very soft at the same time, kind of like a silky stocking over a muscular leg as far as your hands will feel. And with the bj, if you decide to will give your mouth the same feeling as your hands with the hand job except you'll be able to feel everything about him, every vein, every indent, where it goes from smooth to rough and vice versa and this would be a very comforting feeling, if you decide to do this you might get addicted, be warned lol.
Question 2: How do you sit and how does he sit? There are many ways to sit, lie or kneel, my best suggestion is, get comfortable. When he's doing something to you he'll move so he's comfortable when he sees your comfy. Now when your having fun with him he'll lie down or sit up and you work around him but try to stay comfy too.
Question 3: What do I do during and what does he do during? You said that he's going to show you what he likes so keep an eye on his expressions and if you see something he really likes concentrate on that for a bit then go back to what he was showing you, as for his turn just stay comfy and sit back and enjoy the ride.
Question 4: Where does his jizz go? Where ever you want it to, there is no rule set in stone as to where he can come unless you set it in stone. But I'll give you some examples; Breasts, face, stomach, butt, hand, mouth or possibly swallow. Now as per those examples, if he gives you a really obvious compliment like "you have a great rack" it might be more of a turn on for him to see your breasts covered in cum, or if you feel really confident in yourself and want to try swallowing it he would be very impressed (side note: Cum is really bitter and comes out pretty warm, a lot of girls don't like it but guys do because of how rare it happens). If your giving him a handjobe and he's cumming you can just let it come out and it'll most likely roll down your hand, other than that just be creative and let your mind wander into the gutter, lol.
Hope this could help and sorry it's so long.
If you have any more questions just ask.
Sincerely,
Gateway01
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