i said fuck you to my boyfriend.....i didnt mean to it just kind of slipped and now he wont speak to me...i need a way to apologize so that he really knows im sorry..help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? smileydino answered Saturday June 6 2009, 12:48 am: The other day the same exact thing happened to me and my boyfriend.
I called him and started crying.
It worked.
But my boyfriend is really easy to please, yours might not be.
Go up to him and tell him how sorry you really are and give him a hug.
Don't just say, I am soooo sorry.
Say something like.
Baby, I am so sorry I said that, I really didn't mean it, what can I do to show you I really mean I am sorry?
Even if he acts like he is ignoring you trust me he is listening.
If he acctually talks to you give him a hug.
Best of luck sweet heart :)
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solidadvice4teens answered Monday June 1 2009, 7:13 pm: If things a few days to cool down. See if he comes to you first. You tried to reach out and he wasn't ready to forgive. You must have hurt him badly. Let it heal and give him time to collect his thoughts as he's all fired up and angry.
There must have been a good reason you told him to and it shocked him. It had the desired effect you were looking for at the time but regret now. If after a few days he doesn't approach you tell him you need to talk and leave it at that. If he genuinely loves you it will be fine.
Apologizing profusely over and over won't help. He knows where you stand and heard you when you first apologized. He's just not ready to forgive but will definitely come around if left alone for a few days. Trust me, that works as right now he's pissed off and that will make talking to you right now difficult without adding fuel to the fire. Wait! You'll see it'll be fine.
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