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should i tell him?


Posted Friday August 17 2012, 6:00 pm

I have this friend and its been two years since we met of course at school he's actually a good guy with a humor personality which i love about him. and in the pass months i been feeling something special for him like more than friends and i dont know if he feels the same way for me? we always hanging together going to parties , chilling at the movies but should i tell him how i feel for him? i dont want to mess up our friendship too aw what should i do?

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How do I help my boyfriend?


Posted Friday August 17 2012, 2:52 am

Ok so I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19 it's a two year difference! we always talk about everything togeather, but when we start to hang out more he told me he smokes! I didn't like that he wasn't going to tell me until I heard his mom over the phone one day telling him his room smelled really bad and then of Course he had to tell me. After that I guess I didn't care and still hang out with him, until he kept thinking of smoking and then told me it mad him feel calm cause well he's the type of guy that is shy and always worries to much. He told me his friend had told him to smoke to feel calm. He also went through a lot of depression and takes medisone for it. He also thinks in a negative way I try to help him I just worry about him! Sometimes ...

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Nervous to see him again, been a year...


Posted Thursday August 16 2012, 8:40 pm

Ok so 13/f and every year my mom, sister, and younger brother go to our cottage over 8 hours away. Our neighbours (cottage next to ours) go down at about the same time and I've become really good friends with both of them (girl my age, guy 2 years older) We go swimming in the water all the time together and its super fun. Im nervous to see the guy though because last year we sorta wheeled each other the whole time.. What should I do?

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Like him alot but I dont wanna date him?


Posted Thursday August 16 2012, 8:38 pm

Alright so Im 14 and the guy I like (Sam) is 13, he is super nice, funny, cute, and amazing! We've talked alot over the summer and I think I might be falling for him, he even stops gamming when I msg him just to reply =) My ex's never did that... Anyways, I like him alot, I have no clue if he likes me.. How do I find that out. We only really talk over facebook... Most of our convos are really sarcastic and when we say goodbye we either say "bye cutie" or "bye friend". We practically wheel each other, but, we're running out of thingss to say and I dont want out convos to end because he can make my day just by saying "hey cutie;)" in the morning with a winky face. How can I tell if he likes me? I want to know so ...

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Am I bisexual?


Posted Wednesday August 15 2012, 5:35 pm

I'm a 16 year old female and I've had a few boyfriends. This summer I met a girl that I found myself having feelings for. We got super close and became good friends. I've never felt that way about a girl before and I don't see other girls in a romantic way, except for this one. Could I be bisexual or is it just a girl crush?

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Does this happen to you?


Posted Wednesday August 15 2012, 2:30 pm

Hey everyone! I'm 14/f

Recently I've been confronted with a common -- more common than I thought -- situation & it seems that whenever something new is presented to me, whether it be a new word or a new show I've never heard of, I start to see it everywhere. That is really no surprise because it happens each time I'm presented with something new.

This time the situation is knowing a person from the opposite sex for a long time & ending up married when you're older. I have always wondered why that is ever since I was little & had my forever crush on a friend.

There are a few songs that I already knew for a few years, others that I just learned, but have been hearing them a lot ...

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Why is he so defensive of his ex girlfriend?


Posted Wednesday August 15 2012, 6:23 am

Hi, we've been dating for 2 and half years now and we love each other. we have just moved in together. he has a young kid with his ex. but whenever we argue he's so defensive of his ex as he says he hates his ex as she hurt him very badly in the past that's the reason they broke up. but i think to my myself, if someone hates so much then why so defensive of her? she is a very manipulative woman. so guys, defensive means still loving her or am i thinking to much? thanks.

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what exactly do u do in sex?


Posted Wednesday August 15 2012, 4:08 am

Hi in female and I'm 16
Me and my bf are gunna make love at the weekend x
But I really don't know what happens in sex or how you know when to bj a boy or when he wants to finger u xx
Cos like you read stuff in books but it doesn't really tell you
So any advice welcumed xx
Thnku x

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where can i find a deep love poem for my girlfriend??


Posted Wednesday August 15 2012, 12:46 am

I used to write poems for my girlfriend but after a while I ran out of things to say so I started looking for a good love poem on google but didn't find any that suit her... Where can I find some decent love poems?? Please help!!!

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how do i get my boyfriend to kiss me?


Posted Wednesday August 15 2012, 12:44 am

Okay so I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend. We've talked about kissing and he acted like he would the next time he got the chance. He has had a couple of chances but hasn't taken them. I'm to nervous to make the first move because its my first kiss and this would be his third. How do I let him know without completely just telling him?

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mostly your boyfriend and how looks at other girls.


Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 11:26 pm

what does it mean when yuor boyfriend is looking at you like you stupid?and when he looks at one of your best friends and then look around like anything happen?

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The BFFE Break-Up


Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 11:04 am

Recently I broke up with my significant other, and best friend. I left him because of his unambitious lifestyle and inability to commit. Or at least that's the simple way to tell people who haven't seen us together. Truth is, I was completely in love with my ex, but when we were together, he wasn't. Now for the sake a long standing friendship we both had we're trying to go back to just being friends... And it's not working for me. Breaking off from one another is just going to make him angry and hurt him because he's never understood why I needed space, but to me, I can't even think about moving on and dating someone else if he's still around (not that I want to go jump into a relationship, I just want to move on so that I can someday). He ...

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Going out of state to get closure from the guy i love


Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 3:53 am

i was off and on with this guy for 2 years and we've been through a lot together. one day we got into an argument and he didn't want to talk it out so i walked away. 3 weeks later i found out he moved to a whole other state. part of me was furious that he didn't even tell me and part of me was miserable realizing that i lost him. recently we started emailing each other and he told me that he wanted to have a future with me. he saw us getting married and having a family but i walked away. i told him i feel as he has some of the blame too because I was trying to talk it out with him. the thing is he read the last message but he didn't say anything back. i was thinking of just telling him it's better if we have a conversation face to face. ema...

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I really messed up


Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 12:56 am

I got into a fight with my boyfriend. I really upset him by saying he doesn't love me. Truth is I don't even know why i said it. I was hurt. I thought he was ignoring me. He wasn't of course. I already admitted my wrong and apoligized. But he said i made him feel like a joke and he doesnt love me anymore, but he still really likes me. I need help, how can I fix this?

My heart is aching. This guy, he means the world to me. Im sorry for all the grammatical errors, its hard to see when your crying. Please help, I want my sweet and loving boyfriend back.

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Does he still love me?


Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 12:46 am

Im a 14 year old female . I fell real hard for this one guy. We were together for almost three years , we didnt have sex or anything but how do i know if he still loves me? We talk rearley case he says he doesnt want me to still love him or feel stong feelings for him anymore. He was my frist love and we always got into fights but he's always saying comments that makes me think he sill does. How do I know for sure?
He wont tell me straigh up though so can someone help? Please & thank you !!!

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Worried about the future


Posted Monday August 13 2012, 10:49 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year now, about 15 months. I met him 2 years ago through a friend and knew that moment I loved him. We have always been a ways away, we live about 45 minutes away from each other. We have managed to see each other at least once a week during the school year and a few days a week this summer. In less than a month, he will be studying sports management at a private college a half hour away from me. He will also be playing for the school's rugby team. I however, have one more year of highschool and I am not allowed to visit the campus, nevermind sleep over. We are used to the distance, I am just worried that we will just be too busy for each other. We have talked about this before and he has ...

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I have a boyfriend but I think I might like another guy... How do I dump my boyfriend for another guy without hurting him? (I dumped him for another guy before, too.)


Posted Monday August 13 2012, 9:13 pm

Alright so Im 13/f and dont think that Im young that Im not allowed to have a boyfriend, we hug and hang out together and sometimes kiss. He is really sweet and nice and I like him but all the time he says we're not too young to date and he keeps saying 'i love you' to me and honestly, yes Im too young at this age to be in love! I used to say it back but now Im snapping back to reality! I dont love him! I like him a bit and thats all! I just dont know how to tell him this... Also, he is nice but he's weird and we have dated before (last year) and then I broke up with him because I liked another guy and then he asked me out in June and I thought I'd be ready for a relationship but I wasnt and I dont know how to say this to him because he has...

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What does it mean, when my friend ask me if i am a virgin or not?


Posted Monday August 13 2012, 1:36 pm

What does it mean, when my friend ask me if i am a virgin or not?
i have friend that asked me if i live together with my boy friend or not. and i am a virgin or not. what does he mean?
he seems like me, but i m not sure. what do you guys think?

i have boyfriend, and he knew that i have boyfriend. but why he still ask me that question. my answer is no. after that he said, virgin is not everything, but he just wants to know why want to did it. but he said, i am fine, virgin or not.
what do you guys think?

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ah this keeps carrying on..


Posted Monday August 13 2012, 1:22 pm

well im a female/18. Me and my ex ended like 1month ago, after almost 1year of dating.
I dont know how to move on :(
basically im his first love right , he ended it..
and do uno what i cant stand is the fact that he said he loved me, yet when i asked him about his feelings he said he didnt know, i really dont want him to move on, i know he loves me cause couple weeks ago he said "its as hard for u as it is for me" , i dont know what more i can do..
I still have him on my blackberry messenger, i dont wanna delete him.
Then on twitter he wrote 'the best thing we ever had and we took it for granted'..
I don't know if he'll ever come back. No1 understands him the way I do, i keep lying to mys...

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What does it mean when he doesn't consider you priority?


Posted Monday August 13 2012, 10:54 am

What does it mean when a man tells you that a woman comes 5th in their life after faith, children, career, and taking care of their family? Does it mean he doesn't want a relationship even though he says he would like to have one someday? How should a woman go about this to avoid getting hurt?

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