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Going out of state to get closure from the guy i love
i was off and on with this guy for 2 years and we've been through a lot together. one day we got into an argument and he didn't want to talk it out so i walked away. 3 weeks later i found out he moved to a whole other state. part of me was furious that he didn't even tell me and part of me was miserable realizing that i lost him. recently we started emailing each other and he told me that he wanted to have a future with me. he saw us getting married and having a family but i walked away. i told him i feel as he has some of the blame too because I was trying to talk it out with him. the thing is he read the last message but he didn't say anything back. i was thinking of just telling him it's better if we have a conversation face to face. emailing can be confusing because you can never tell the tone of voice the other is using and when they stop replying you jump to so many conclusions. do you think i would be better of just going to the city where he is and sorting things out face to face?
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I understand why you must be a little frustrated.
What I recommend you do, it message him again and tell him if it's possible to meet up face to face.
If you feel you have to meet him, then go for it, because it did seem to end messily.
But I have to say; if it didn't work the first time, then it probably won't the second. You are the best judge though.
But don't just randomly show up of course: arrange a time, place, and day to meet up with him.
Good luck.
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