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ah this keeps carrying on..


Question Posted Monday August 13 2012, 1:22 pm

well im a female/18. Me and my ex ended like 1month ago, after almost 1year of dating.
I dont know how to move on :(
basically im his first love right , he ended it..
and do uno what i cant stand is the fact that he said he loved me, yet when i asked him about his feelings he said he didnt know, i really dont want him to move on, i know he loves me cause couple weeks ago he said "its as hard for u as it is for me" , i dont know what more i can do..
I still have him on my blackberry messenger, i dont wanna delete him.
Then on twitter he wrote 'the best thing we ever had and we took it for granted'..
I don't know if he'll ever come back. No1 understands him the way I do, i keep lying to myself saying im going to move on yet i cant.

Like this is the first time i've cared and loved someone this much, after we ended i love him even more.
Also.. i went back to him twice and he rejected me :( hmmmmmmm sometimes i dont even know if he had an excuse to end with me. Cause how can u say you love someone days before ending, and then if i ask u, he says he dont know? :/ makes no sense..
sighhh :(


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AdviceMistress answered Tuesday August 14 2012, 11:17 am:
I'm going to be honest with you in this answer. I have to be because you need it.
Rejection is the worst feeling I know because I've been there many times in a different kinds of relationships. Here in the honesty part is that if he really wanted to back with you he would have gone back to you by now. You need to move on.
Moving on means totally cutting ties which means no blackberry and no twitter. Block him. Looking at his stuff will definitely leave you depressed and it will make it harder for you to move on. Please do this for yourself and know that you can move on and you will. Good luck and things will get better xo

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