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Does he still love me?
Im a 14 year old female . I fell real hard for this one guy. We were together for almost three years , we didnt have sex or anything but how do i know if he still loves me? We talk rearley case he says he doesnt want me to still love him or feel stong feelings for him anymore. He was my frist love and we always got into fights but he's always saying comments that makes me think he sill does. How do I know for sure?
He wont tell me straigh up though so can someone help? Please & thank you !!!
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I have been through a similar scenario a few years ago and I have to say, it's very confusing. In my experience, the guy I was in love with ddn't love me but tried to be somewhat nice without leading me on. This guy will probably not b straight with you simply because he feels like he is doing his part by being nice to you. Another thing, you don't always have to have sex to know that you are in love and any guy who turns you down because you won't have sex with him is a duche. I don't know if that is why you too broke up but if it is, he probably wants to keep his distance. The best and healthiest thing you can do for yourself is to move on. He will always be your first love-that will never change-but there are plenty of better things to worry about than some guy who doesn't seem to care about you anymore. Hope this helped!
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Didn't you take anything away from this:
"We talk rearley case he says he doesnt want me to still love him or feel stong feelings for him anymore."
That to me sounds like he wants you to move on. If a guy wants to be with you he will be with you there's no excuse. I'm not trying to sound harsh I'm just being realistic which is what you need to hear. I understand he's your first love but you're young there are plenty fish out in the sea. Don't settle. Move on and meet new people see what else is out there.
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